Can You Become a Virgin Again?

Can You Become a Virgin Again?

"I've asked for forgiveness. Now please tell me how to answer people who want to know whether or not I'm a virgin."
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Feelings of guilt are your internal, emotional response. They aren't always reliable. What we call a guilty conscience is often a mixture of feelings: regret, loss, sadness, self-reproach. These are natural feelings for someone who's been heavily, emotionally involved in a sexual relationship.

The sense of guilt won't instantly change. Like other natural consequences-pregnancy, disease, or painful memories-feelings don't necessarily disappear when God transforms your life. But their sting is taken away. So, even though you may still feel guilty, it's vital to know that, as far as God's concerned, you're not guilty. That's the truth of

1 John 1:9, where God promises to forgive us and cleanse us when we confess our sins to him. And that's the truth of Jeremiah 31:34, where God promises to forget your sins … forever.

Jesus didn't die on the cross to take away your feelings. He died to take away your sins. Cleansed of sin, you can work on transforming your feelings into a useful tool for God's service. They need not lead you downward. Transformed, they can give you compassion for the pain of other people. They can give you deep determination not to go wrong again.

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