This is one of the reasons discipleship must be done in smaller groups, whether a small church, or small groups within a large church.
2. A living example
As one helpful reader pointed out in my Facebook page comment section after my last blog post, one of the goals in a mentoring/discipling relationship is that “A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher.” (Luke 6:40)
Jesus didn’t just want the disciples to know about him, he wanted them to know him and become like him. He wanted them to have the kind of relationship with him that he has with the Father. So he led by example to show them how to pray, how to love the Father, how to respond to criticism, how to live a holy life, how to love your enemies, and so much more.
You can receive valuable information from someone who might be an immoral scoundrel. But you can only be properly discipled by someone who’s living a life that’s at least one step closer to being the person God wants you to be.
3. A clear assignment
After Jesus walked with the disciples for a while, he sent 72 of them out with a very specific assignment to prepare the towns where he was heading to be ready for his arrival.
(Note, he also sent them two-by-two, to be sure to keep the relationship aspect as active as possible.)
4. An accurate assessment
After the 72 returned, they reported to Jesus what had happened and he assessed the value of how well they had completed their task.
More Than Teaching
Teaching is important. Therefore, good discipleship and equipping will always have dissemination of knowledge as an essential element. But an equipping pastor (or any of the other five ministry gifts in Eph 4:11-12) will do more than impart knowledge.
Like the teachings of Jesus, the best sermons don’t just impart knowledge, they’re seen as one element of many in a thorough discipling/equipping process.
An equipping process cannot be done without walking beside, living among, doing with and assessing after.
Yes, that requires far more work than delivering a sermon or correcting someone on Facebook – which is probably the main reason we default to those instead of doing the hard work of equipping. But that’s our mandate.
Teaching creates students.
Equipping prepares disciples.
Making disciples is what the Great Commission is all about.
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