Adapted by permission from The Quest for Character (Multnomah, 1987).

I phoned a pastor because I'd heard he was leaving his church (a false rumor) and wanted to encourage him. But I had no trouble finding myself in the story.

He has been my friend for almost a decade. A sensitive, caring, tender man-maybe too tender- he's in a church that is strong and respected in the community. Though seasoned in years, he is quickly losing heart. His words: "I want to quit."

Why? He hit a thick wall of resistance. He began a creative program that broke with the past. It would ruffle hardly any feathers in a place where innovation is welcomed and effectiveness appreciated, but because several people in his flock were neither innovative nor open, the man encountered the wrath of Khan.

I hurt for him, but there was little I could do to help. Mainly, he needed a listening ear and the reassurance that somebody, even though many miles away, still believed in him. I hope he felt affirmed. I am praying he won't ...