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Using Your Strengths Against You

Leadership lessons from the life of Daniel.

Have you ever been criticized because of how God made you?

When someone's personality gets him into trouble, in a way you can't blame him, but nevertheless he suffers the consequences of that nature. God allows us to see and experience the effects of our faults and uses this revelation to mature us.

My past successes and abilities can't free me from my den of critics; in fact, they may be what got me there in the first place. For example, when I'm in meetings with people who thrive on conflict, my reserved nature–which usually serves me well–actually invites their attacks. Since they know I won't raise my voice, they feel enabled, even encouraged, to passionately defend their position. When I respond with short comments or silence, they press in, sure I won't counter with equal fervor.

When you are who you are, you will have problems. If you're too smart, you'll eventually get criticized for your aloofness. If you're too engaged with your people, you'll be labeled a micromanager. Think you're ...

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