For the past 11 years, my wife and I have had the privilege of working with individuals who suffer from substance abuse issues. Nearly 600 men walk through our doors each year. Their problems vary, but each lacks a common characteristic: discipline. This lack of discipline makes it incredibly difficult for them to thrive in our highly structured and competitive world. More important, their lack of discipline prevents them from growing in their walk with God.

As I work to encourage them in their spiritual lives, I have found myself playing an unlikely role: one of disciplinarian. Yes, these men need to hear positive feedback, but my equally important task is to alert them to their shortcomings. I regularly have men sit in my office and confess their failures. However, they often do not understand the spiritual lapses that may have contributed to these failures. In these cases, I ask them questions such as, "What about your prayer life? How are your daily devotions and Bible study coming?" ...