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How to Make Finding a Mentor Less Awkward
Three shifts in the way I thought about mentoring freed me.
How will this impact the other relationships in your life? Life is full of mentors, and these relationships are best when they are inclusive and not exclusive.
How to Ask a Man to Mentor You
In light of #MeToo, some men are more reluctant than ever to mentor a woman.
addresses. The fear of being falsely accused hovers in some men's consciousness, making them more cautious in their relationships with women. The
Unresolved Relationship Issues
Recognizing, addressing, and helping others deal with transference.
from childhood. Transference can also happen in peer or romantic relationships, but tends to occur when there is a hierarchy of roles. Women leaders
Ally or Adversary?
Relationships between female leaders are often marked by competition and contempt. It doesn't have to be this way.
Relationships between female leaders are often marked by competition and contempt. Relationships between female leaders are often marked by competition and contempt.
8 Guidelines for Ministering to Men
A nuanced alternative to the Billy Graham Rule that views men—and ourselves—first as being in the image of God.
accordingly. It's a skill much of evangelical Christianity has not cultivated, particularly when it comes to male-female relationships. 1. Cultivate your relationships. For
The 4 Great Challenges of Christian Counseling
Pastors must prepare to bear these burdens as they meet with parishioners.
To learn more about the greatest difficulties of counseling, I interviewed full-time therapists, pastors whose calling led them into counseling relationships, and professors of counseling
How to Keep Leading When You Feel Like Falling Apart
5 things to do when you face tragedy and turmoil
Maybe like me, you've lost someone close to you. Maybe you've struggled through financial hardship or strained family relationships. When we have challenges, how do we cope?
How I Found a Support Network
5 ways I formed a group of women leaders around me
It has taken me 25 years of trial and error to learn how to develop a solid web of supportive relationships. The Challenges of Finding Community. Ministry
Make an Appointment with Your Heavenly Doctor
As we lead others, we can’t overlook our own need for God’s healing.
Relationships, finances, stress, and health are common sources of pain we find ourselves trying to handle alone, only giving them over to God when we have made such a tangled knot
For Every Minister Who Struggles With Your Prayer Life
Real prayer is about relationship. And relationships are hard. Even (especially?) with God.
Real prayer is about relationship. And relationships are hard. Even (especially?) with God. At least it should be. And relationships are never quick and easy.
Reaching a New Generation with the Bible
We can no longer depend on methods that worked 20 years ago.
Relationships First. Instead, engaging younger generations with the Bible starts where it always has: relationships. Even more than previous generations
Find Your Place in God's Story
Like Esther, you may be exactly where you are for a specific purpose.
change my life. I was 18 at the time and in the midst of a 3-week romance that illustrated the longevity of my high school relationships. My boyfriend had
The Enneagram for Pastors
9 different ways pastors look at the world, and what it might mean for your ministry.
You give and give, building relationships with almost everyone you encounter. That impulse can also be exhausting. Your comfort with pain has the potential to limit your relationships.
What Are You Leading People to Expect from Jesus?
God may not be interested in satisfying every one of our desires.
What Are You Leading People to Expect from Jesus? God may not be interested in satisfying every one of our desires. Read as Single PagePage 1 of
God is doing something bigger and better than your project.
went wrong. Probably the biggest lesson was that we shouldn't randomly throw people together. Relationships have to form naturally. People are far
How to Serve Your City When You Aren’t a Megachurch
Our resources are limited, but that hasn’t stopped us.
We developed similar relationships with the police chief and fire chief. As church leaders, we are conditioned to prioritize relationships that will directly benefit our churches.
No More Frenemies in Ministry
Rather than see other women leaders as competition, we can serve as advocates and allies for one another.
Well, they both intended to succeed … and so the rivalry began. Complicated competitive relationships among women are not limited to the catwalks and TV shows.
How to Honor Singles in Your Church
Singles need space for grieving and celebration—and the church can offer both.
How to Honor Singles in Your Church. Singles need space for grieving and celebration—and the church can offer both. Read as Single PagePage 1
Church Turnaround Is An Attitude, Not An Event
Turnarounds require rebuilding of broken trust, reestablishing of eternal principles and repairing of damaged relationships.
Turnarounds require rebuilding of broken trust, reestablishing of eternal principles and repairing of damaged relationships. Church LeadershipAugust