{"id":12729,"date":"2008-10-10T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2008-10-10T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/2008\/10\/10\/getting-men-into-church\/"},"modified":"2008-10-10T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2008-10-10T00:00:00","slug":"getting-men-into-church","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/content\/getting-men-into-church\/","title":{"rendered":"Getting Men into Church"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<strong>G<\/strong>uys will spend more time and money in a hair salon that looks like a locker room,&#8221; David Murrow says. &#8220;What&#8217;s the lesson for the local church?&#8221;<\/p><p>Butch up the service, apparently.<\/p><p>Murrow, whose first book told us <em>Why Men Hate Going to Church<\/em>, has a new volume on the man\/church conundrum. Men favor larger, multi-ethnic congregations with strong pastoral leadership and characteristic excellence.<\/p><p>And they don&#8217;t like overly feminine worship services. He calls these men &#8220;praise skippers,&#8221; the ones who intentionally arrive late and miss the music. Murrow advises:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Get out the hymnal and sing &#8220;guy&#8221; songs: <em>Rise Up O Men of God, Onward Christian Soldiers<\/em>, and such&mdash;with the original, non-PC language.<\/li>\n<li>Choose &#8220;respect&#8221; songs about God over breathy &#8220;love&#8221; songs about &#8220;embracing.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Lower the key. Guys can&#8217;t reach the castrati heights of today&#8217;s music, and don&#8217;t want to.<\/li>\n<li>Give men a goal in worship: &#8220;Today we&#8217;re talking about the sin of pride,&#8221; for example.<\/li>\n\n<\/ul><p class=\"is-style-article-source\">&mdash;from <em class=\"citation\">How Women Can Help Men Find God<\/em><\/p><p class=\"is-style-article-copyright\">Copyright &copy; 2008 by the author or Christianity Today\/<em>Leadership<\/em> Journal.<a href=\"http:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/help\/permissions-privacy\/permissions.html\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"copyright\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here<\/a> for reprint information on <em>Leadership<\/em> Journal.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Guys will spend more time and money in a hair salon that looks like a locker room,&#8221; David Murrow says. &#8220;What&#8217;s the lesson for the local church?&#8221;Butch up the service, apparently.Murrow, whose first book told us Why Men Hate Going to Church, has a new volume on the man\/church conundrum. Men favor larger, multi-ethnic congregations <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/content\/getting-men-into-church\/\">Read 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