{"id":1944,"date":"2022-09-26T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-09-26T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/2022\/09\/26\/changing-minds-is-not-our-job\/"},"modified":"2025-10-09T16:39:54","modified_gmt":"2025-10-09T16:39:54","slug":"changing-minds-is-not-our-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/content\/changing-minds-is-not-our-job\/","title":{"rendered":"Changing Minds Is Not Our Job"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

It\u2019s 2 a.m. on a Tuesday night, and I am wide awake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Usually my kids are to blame for this sort of thing. They had a bad dream. They want something to eat. They forgot to tell me a funny joke they heard at school. Urgent stuff<\/em>. But not tonight. Tonight is worse. What has awoken me is not my kids but my anxiety about a conflict at the church I co-pastor with my husband, Ike. Someone we love and are close to, someone who knows our family and our kids and who has been on mission with us for the gospel, doesn\u2019t like a decision we made. They are so upset that they\u2019re threatening to leave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As soon as my eyes pop open in the darkness, the thoughts that have been churning for days resume:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe if I explained this Scripture passage to them\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe if I came at it from this theological perspective\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe if I shared the wise counsel we received from experts in our congregation\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe if they heard the stories of hurting people in our church\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And on and on it goes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Throughout my time in ministry, I\u2019ve experienced the occasional conflict-induced sleepless night\u2014but, like many pastors, there\u2019s been a marked uptick over the past two years. In 2020, as church leaders faced the triple whammy of the pandemic, nationwide racial tension, and a polarizing presidential election, the climate inside our churches changed with it. Our sanctuaries\u2019 air became polluted by deep partisanship, which meant every decision, every statement, every sermon, and every social media post coming from pastors was interpreted through a political filter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because the risk of misunderstanding was so high, my husband and I gave a lot of time and attention to explaining ourselves. We taught through the Scripture that was guiding our decisions, and we were transparent about the wise and knowledgeable voices we were listening to. We knew this was necessary to instill trust in our people\u2014and usually it did\u2014but this approach also taught us a hard lesson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What we\u2019ve learned over the past two years is that no matter the scriptural exegesis you use, no matter the theological backing you appeal to, no matter the data, the experts, or your own record of integrity, you cannot convince people of something they do not want to believe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why? Because information is not nearly as powerful as we think it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix<\/em>, author and family therapist Edwin Friedman described our limited influence this way: \u201cThe colossal misunderstanding of our time is the assumption that insight will work with people who are unmotivated to change.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As much as we wish it were otherwise, information has far less influence than we give it credit for. Downloading the \u201cfacts\u201d into others\u2019 brains is not going to magically change their minds, but I will be the first to admit this hasn\u2019t stopped me from trying. Whenever individuals in my church or personal life \u201cneed to be corrected\u201d (according to me), I\u2019m off to the races with all the arguments I could employ to persuade them. In seconds flat, I can summon a hundred different talking points to convince them of the truth, if I could just sit down with them to explain it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But God is showing me that I\u2019m not merely attempting to guide them\u2014I\u2019m actually trying to control<\/em> them. I am relying on knowledge, information, and the truth of God\u2019s Word to function like the reins on a horse, instantly directing others in the direction I want them to go.<\/p>\n\n\n

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But time and experience are teaching me that I am severely overestimating my own power to convince. Jesus himself hinted at the limited power of our arguments by concluding some of his hardest teachings with the statement \u201cWhoever has ears, let them hear\u201d (Matt. 11:15). The implication is that some will not hear. They will not understand\u2014not because they cannot but because they will not. No amount of convincing, no matter how compelling the evidence or airtight the logic, will move them. Not if they do not wish to be moved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Research has shown this to be true. When we use information to change someone\u2019s opinion, it can, in some instances, have the reverse outcome. The backfire effect<\/em><\/a> is a term used in psychology to describe the doubling down that occurs when people are presented with information that contradicts their own beliefs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rather than view the evidence objectively and adjust their beliefs accordingly, some people entrench their misbelief all the more. Further studies have shown that this phenomenon is especially likely to occur when belief is tied to identity<\/a>. When new information feels like a threat to one\u2019s identity or way of life, one is much more motivated to reject it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thanks to the past several years of ministry, Ike and I have learned to discern those who are receptive from those who are not. Bad-faith assumptions about our motives or a lack of genuine curiosity about our decisions are both sure-fire signs that our explanations will be wasted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yet even discerning a lack of true receptivity doesn\u2019t always curb my illusions of influence. Against all experience to the contrary, I still have a deep-seated belief in my own ability to convince. I can spend days ruminating about the perfect argument with all the facts and perspectives that I am convinced cannot be refuted. But if I were to do this in real life\u2014come at people like an attorney instead of a pastor\u2014it would backfire horribly. And it has. Like all forms of control, it doesn\u2019t work. It only feeds anxiety in me and strains my relationship with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Identifying this struggle with control has helped me greatly in two specific ways. The first is captured well by the phrase \u201cWhen you name it, you tame it.\u201d Tension in my neck, back, and jaw; the spiraling of my anxious thoughts; and the insomnia that follows are telltale signs that I am trying to control something God has not given me to control. Naming this temptation helps me reframe what is really happening: I am not merely trying to shepherd my people; I am trying to control them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Second, this realization about control has emphasized the priority of listening<\/em> as key to pastoral ministry. Our culture has become increasingly polarized partly because we are experiencing the backfire effect on a societal scale. When we try to control one another with arguments or attempts at persuasion, we often push our dissenters even farther away. In a loud environment like this one, the practice of being \u201cquick to listen, slow to speak\u201d is not just biblically faithful (James 1:19) but also a missional imperative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In both structured and spontaneous ways, Ike and I are seeking to intentionally listen to our congregants\u2014especially to those who may be disgruntled or angry. These times of focused listening serve as a countercultural witness in a society fractured by its issues with control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Facing off with the ongoing temptation to control has been crucial for my own spiritual health as a pastor. We cannot control our people\u2014and attempting to do so will only do damage. When we encounter the limits of our influence, we can do one of two things: resist, or recognize this as an opportunity to lay down a burden we were never meant to bear. The limits of our persuasion are not always a sign of the Fall. Often they\u2019re a sign of the right order of things. They remind us that it is time to take up the lighter yoke and to fully trust the Spirit\u2014the one true mover of hearts and enlightener of minds\u2014to do the heavy lifting for us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sharon Hodde Miller leads Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina, with her husband, Ike. She earned a PhD researching women and calling. Her latest book is The Cost of Control<\/em>.\n\nPortions of this article are adapted from The Cost of Control <\/em>by Sharon Hodde Miller (Baker Books, a division of Baker Publishing Group, \u00a9 2022). Used by permission.<\/p>\n\n\n

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