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He points to the difference in being conversant rather than fluent; pastors might not be experts in a variety of fields &#8211; e.g. medicine, law, architecture &#8211; but they can engage the people in their church by asking questions related to the work environment: What are some dilemmas you&#39;re currently facing? Would you walk me through what a typical day looks like for you? How have you dealt with disappointment in your work life? On what projects are you currently working? These kinds of shepherding questions, along with a good dose of humility and curiosity, help church leaders connect with laypeople in a meaningful way.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tom Nelson, senior pastor of Christ Community in Kansas City, discusses the challenge in shepherding people about various vocational fields. 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