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How to master the conflict that cripples God\u2019s church.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As every pastor knows, conflict and controversy are difficult and painful. Sometimes the controversy reflects the battle between the forces of light and darkness. More often, however, the conflict rests upon misunderstandings and opinions rather than issues of morality.
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Dealing with church conflict is uncomfortable and confusing. But as you face the challenge, there are steps you can take to promote harmony within your fellowship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mastering Conflict and Controversy<\/em> will show you how to discern the root cause of a controversy, how to deal with and minimize inevitable conflict, and how to turn conflicts to good. You will find this newest volume in the Mastering Ministry<\/em> series to be an indispensable resource as you work to build strength and unity within your church.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How to master the conflict that cripples God\u2019s church. As every pastor knows, conflict and controversy are difficult and painful. Sometimes the controversy reflects the battle between the forces of light and darkness. More often, however, the conflict rests upon misunderstandings and opinions rather than issues of morality. 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