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Every church has them\u2014sincere, well meaning Christians who leave ulcers, strained relationships, and hard feelings in their wake. They don\u2019t intend to be difficult; they don\u2019t consciously plot destruction or breed discontent among the members. But they often do undermine the ministry of the church and make pastors question their calling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Help for those who minister under all-too-common conditions of hostility, resistance, and interference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well-Intentioned Dragons<\/em> guides those on church staffs in facing the strenuous task of dealing with difficult people\u2014even ministering while under attack. Based on real-life stories of battle-scarred veterans, Marshall Shelly presents a clear picture of God\u2019s love for those on both sides of the problem. He describes tested strategies to communicate that love and turn dissidents into disciples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here is a book that will not only help pastors and church leaders preserve their sanity (and maybe their jobs); it will help them minister more effectively even to those who make life difficult.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Every church has them\u2014sincere, well meaning Christians who leave ulcers, strained relationships, and hard feelings in their wake. They don\u2019t intend to be difficult; they don\u2019t consciously plot destruction or breed discontent among the members. But they often do undermine the ministry of the church and make pastors question their calling. 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