{"id":65703,"date":"2004-06-02T21:51:00","date_gmt":"2004-06-02T21:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/?p=65703"},"modified":"2026-03-17T21:52:32","modified_gmt":"2026-03-17T21:52:32","slug":"weddings-funerals-and-special-events","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/content\/weddings-funerals-and-special-events\/","title":{"rendered":"Weddings, Funerals, and Special Events"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Mastering Ceremonies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In today\u2019s secular society, the only personal contact many people have with a pastor is some public occasion: a wedding, funeral, baby dedication or baptism, an awards ceremony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These settings, where clergy are front and center, offer unique opportunities to minister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The bubbling joy or the piercing grief of these events waken people, if only for a moment, to pastors and to the divine realities they represent. Birth, death, and human achievement become, in C. S. Lewis\u2019s words, \u201ca megaphone to rouse a deafened world.\u201d And pastors who are called upon to lead, officiate, or pray during these events do well to consider how to speak clearly through them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This book offers clear, tested counsel on how to prepare for special occasions and how to conduct the events themselves. Each chapter is written by a pastor who has had extensive experience in that area. These church leaders relate honestly their failures and successes\u2014and the lessons learned\u2014as they\u2019ve ministered during weddings, funerals, and special events.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mastering Ceremonies. In today\u2019s secular society, the only personal contact many people have with a pastor is some public occasion: a wedding, funeral, baby dedication or baptism, an awards ceremony. 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