{"id":8354,"date":"2012-09-12T05:46:28","date_gmt":"2012-09-12T05:46:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/2012\/09\/12\/what-keeps-leaders-from-loving\/"},"modified":"2012-09-12T05:46:28","modified_gmt":"2012-09-12T05:46:28","slug":"what-keeps-leaders-from-loving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/content\/what-keeps-leaders-from-loving\/","title":{"rendered":"What Keeps Leaders from Loving?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>&#8220;The greatest of these is love &hellip;&#8221;<\/em> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1%20Corinthians+13%3A13\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" title=\"view Scripture passage at BibleGateway.com\" rel=\"noopener\">I Cor. 13:13<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n<p>Why do so many of us fail to love as well, or as often, as we could?  One reason: we have developed attitudes and\/or actions which inhibit our ability to love.  Like plaque that builds up in the arteries and inhibits the flow of blood through our system, &#8220;plaque&#8221; can build up in our lives and inhibit the flow of God&#8217;s love to those around us.<\/p>\n\n<p>What are these obstacles that keep us from loving?  We can find many of them hidden in the apostle Paul&#8217;s classic treatise on love (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1%20Corinthians+13%3A1-13%3A13\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" title=\"view Scripture passage at BibleGateway.com\" rel=\"noopener\">1 Corinthians 13<\/a>). Here we can find both the qualities of love and the obstacles:<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Love&#8217;s Ideal &mdash; &#8220;Love is <em>patient<\/em>&#8221; \/ Love&#8217;s Obstacle &mdash; Impatience<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Impatience describes a person whose own agenda is more important than that of anyone else.  This person has little time or care for others&#8217; concerns. An impatient person must constantly be entertained and quickly loses interest in people if they are not filling a need in his or her own life. The Greek word Paul uses for &#8220;patience&#8221; describes a person who has been wronged and has the power to avenge himself, but chooses not to. Impatience seeks revenge. Patience does not.<\/p>\n\n<p>Rate yourself on the scales following each of love&#8217;s obstacles:<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Most of the time, I am &hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><em>Impatient |Patient<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Love&#8217;s Ideal: &#8220;Love is <em>kind<\/em>&#8221; \/ Love&#8217;s Obstacle &mdash; Unkindness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Some people think kindness is synonymous with weakness. Therefore, they reason, one cannot obtain strength and power through kindness. Those who constantly see themselves in competition with others tend to be unkind. A latent sense of inferiority is another cause for unkindness.  In contrast, love is the readiness to enhance the life of another person.<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Most of the time, I am &hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><em>Unkind |Kind<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Love&#8217;s Ideal: &#8220;Love is <em>trusting<\/em>&#8221; \/ Love&#8217;s Obstacle &mdash; Jealousy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Love naturally means concern. As love grows, concern for the beloved also grows. But often, without one realizing it, this concern can become possessive. Jealousy is normal concern that has grown out of control, just as a cancer cell is only a normal cell grown out of control. Jealousy requires total possession&mdash;it must have exclusive rights to another person. This emotion has the power to overwhelm and destroy the most sound and secure relationship, and the most rational person.<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Most of the time, I am &hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><em>Jealous |Trusting<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Love&#8217;s Ideal: &#8220;Love is <em>humble<\/em>&#8221; \/ Love&#8217;s Obstacle &mdash; Arrogance<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Various Bible translations use different words for this obstacle to love: &#8220;boastful,&#8221; &#8220;rudeness,&#8221; &#8220;proud,&#8221; &#8220;anxious to impress,&#8221; &#8220;braggart,&#8221; &#8220;cherishes the idea of its own importance.&#8221; Arrogant people give their &#8220;love&#8221; away as though it were a tremendous favor. Their real purpose, however, is to put others down while trying to lift themselves up.<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Most of the time, I am &hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><em>Arrogant |Humble<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Love&#8217;s Ideal: &#8220;Love is <em>generous<\/em>&#8221; \/ Love&#8217;s Obstacle &mdash; Selfishness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>If there is one quality that creates an insurmountable barrier to love, it is selfishness. Actions motivated by selfishness are exactly the opposite of actions motivated by love. Christ knew about the problem of selfishness when he said, &#8220;Unless a grain of wheat falls to into the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds&#8221; (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John+12%3A24\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" title=\"view Scripture passage at BibleGateway.com\" rel=\"noopener\">John 12:24<\/a>). Selfishness seeks its own way, and in the process loses it. Love seeks the way of others, and in the process finds its own.<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Most of the time, I am &hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><em>Selfish |Generous<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Love&#8217;s Ideal: &#8220;Love is slow to <em>anger<\/em>&#8221; \/ Love&#8217;s Obstacle &mdash; Irritability\/touchiness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Christ had strong words for those who are quick to anger: &#8220;But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment; again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, &#8216;Raca&#8217; [and Aramaic term of contempt], is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, &#8216;You fool!&#8217; will be in danger of the fire of hell&#8221; (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Matthew+5%3A22\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" title=\"view Scripture passage at BibleGateway.com\" rel=\"noopener\">Matthew 5:22<\/a>). &#8220;My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry&#8221; (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=James+1%3A19\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" title=\"view Scripture passage at BibleGateway.com\" rel=\"noopener\">James 1:19<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Most of the time, I am &hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><em>Irritable\/touchy | Slow to anger<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Love&#8217;s Ideal: &#8220;Love is <em>forgiving<\/em>&#8221; \/ Love&#8217;s Obstacle &mdash; Resentfulness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>Resentfulness is the accumulation of irritations suffered in the past, recalled in the present. The word Paul used for resentfulness was an accountant&#8217;s word for entering an item in a ledger so it would not be forgotten. This is exactly what many people do, and it is a great obstacle to love. &#8220;I&#8217;ll forgive, but I&#8217;ll never forget&#8221; mocks the true meaning of forgiveness. Resentfulness looks to the past rather than the future. Love releases memory&#8217;s grip on a wrong suffered or a hurt inflicted.<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Most of the time, I am &hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><em>Resentful |Forgiving<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p>Love&#8217;s Ideal: &#8220;Love <em>hates evil<\/em>&#8221; \/ Love&#8217;s Obstacle &mdash; Loving evil<\/p>\n\n<p>What did Paul mean when he said, &#8220;love hates evil&#8221;? In <em class=\"citation\">Love Within Limits<\/em>, Lewis Smedes says that loving evil is not so much finding pleasure in doing wrong as it is the spiteful satisfaction in hearing or saying something derogatory about another. Surprisingly, people who work the hardest at their high moral standards often love evil the most! As they struggle to live a life of abstinence from worldly things, they condemn those who do not. They gloat at the stumbling of those who &#8220;compromise with the world&#8221; and look forward to the judgment when these hypocrites will get their dues. Their message of the Gospel begins with condemnation. It centers on judgment. It ends in separation. Love seems nowhere to be found.<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Most of the time, I &hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><em>Love evil |Hate evil<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Love&#8217;s Ideal: &#8220;Love is <em>always there<\/em>&#8221; \/ Love&#8217;s Obstacle &mdash; Inconsistency<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>False love has limits on its endurance. It breaks down when things get tough. Inconsistency is like a faulty bond of a poorly-made dam that begins to lose strength at its weakest point. A few drops of water begin to seep through the crack. The inconsistency grows to a stream, and then a torrent, and soon the entire dam gives way. Real love never fails. It is like the strong dam standing against the tremendous pressure of the water behind it. Love will bear any insult, any injury and disappointment &hellip; and still stand strong.<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Most of the time, I am &hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p><em>Inconsistent |Consistent<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p>When we identify our personal obstacles to love, we have taken a giant step toward dealing with them and becoming the loving person and leader God wants us to be. <em>&#8220;Go after a life of love as if your life depended on it&mdash;because it does.&#8221;<\/em> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1%20Corinthians+14%3A1\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" title=\"view Scripture passage at BibleGateway.com\" rel=\"noopener\">I Cor. 14:1<\/a>, <em class=\"citation\">The Message<\/em>)\n<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;The greatest of these is love &hellip;&#8221; (I Cor. 13:13) Why do so many of us fail to love as well, or as often, as we could? 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