{"id":9118,"date":"2011-11-07T01:02:04","date_gmt":"2011-11-07T01:02:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/2011\/11\/07\/isolation\/"},"modified":"2011-11-07T01:02:04","modified_gmt":"2011-11-07T01:02:04","slug":"isolation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/content\/isolation\/","title":{"rendered":"The Isolation Generation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<strong>P<\/strong>lease, sir, may I have some <em>different<\/em>?&#8221; It&#8217;s not &#8220;more&#8221; the average young guy wants today, it&#8217;s <em>different<\/em>.<\/p><p>Psychologist Philip Zimbardo describes drug addiction as &#8220;wanting more,&#8221; but guys today have what he calls arousal addiction, always &#8220;wanting something different.&#8221; This never-ending stream of stimulation is behind the growing failure of males to connect with women socially or to succeed academically. They&#8217;re dropping out of life.<\/p><p>Zimbardo cites excessive internet use, video gaming, and online porn as causes of this new addiction. By age 21, boys spend 10,000 hours gaming, two-thirds of that time in isolation. The average young man watches 50 porn clips per week.<\/p><p>&#8220;Boys&#8217; brains are being digitally rewired in a totally new way, for change, novelty, excitement, and constant arous-al,&#8221; Zimbardo says. &#8220;They&#8217;re totally out of sync in traditional classes, which are analog, static, and interactively pas-sive. And they&#8217;re totally out of sync in relationships, which build gradually and subtly.&#8221; This is creating a generation of young men who do not connect well in traditional teaching situations and who lack social skills especially with women.<\/p><p class=\"is-style-article-source\">&mdash;Zimbardo video is at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"source\" rel=\"noopener\">TED.com<\/a> (Aug 2011)<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-article-subhead1\">Survey Says: Education Makes Us More Religious?<\/h2><p>Each additional year of education increases the likelihood of &hellip;<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>attending religious services: 15%<\/li>\n<li>reading the Bible at least occasionally: 9%<\/li>\n<li>switching to mainline Protestant denomination&mdash;ECUS, Lutheran, PCUSA or UMC: 13%.<\/li>\n\n<\/ul><p class=\"is-style-article-source\">&mdash;University of Nebraska-Lincoln sociologist Philip Schwadel, using data from the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago (CNN, 8\/11\/11)<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-article-subhead1\">Lesser Educated Leading Church Exodus<\/h2><p>Monthly attendance among white adults 25-44 declines over 30-year period.<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Least educated (did not graduate high school): \n1970s &#8230;&#8230;. 38%\n2000s &#8230;&#8230;. 23%<\/li>\n<li>Moderately educated (high school graduate): \n1970s &#8230;&#8230;. 50%\n2000s &#8230;&#8230;. 37%<\/li>\n<li>Educated (college graduate): \n1970s &#8230;&#8230;. 51%\n2000s &#8230;&#8230;. 46%<\/li>\n\n<\/ul><p class=\"is-style-article-source\">&mdash;from a report by American Sociological Association, using data from the General Social Survey and the National Survey of Family Growth. 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