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A reporter for Business Insider<\/em> writes:<\/p>\n\n

Recently, my family group chat buzzed when I asked if we should say "please" and "thank you" to ChatGPT when making requests. My mother, always polite, insisted on using manners with AI to "keep myself human."<\/p>\n\n

As AI like ChatGPT becomes part of daily life, our interactions with these tools are shaping new social norms. Digital etiquette expert Elaine Swann notes that, just as we've adapted to new technology—like knowing not to take phone calls on speaker in public—we're still figuring out how to treat AI bots.<\/p>\n\n

Kelsey Vlamis, another Business Insider<\/em> reporter, noticed this shift personally. While vacationing in Italy, her husband had to stop himself from interrupting their tour guide with rapid-fire questions, realizing that’s how he interacts with ChatGPT but not with people. "That is not, in fact, how we talk to human beings," Vlamis said.<\/p>\n\n

Swann emphasizes that maintaining respect in all interactions—human or digital—is important. After OpenAI CEO Sam Altman revealed on X that it costs "tens of millions of dollars" to process polite phrases like "please" and "thank you" sent to ChatGPT, Swann argued that it’s up to companies to make this more efficient, not for users to drop politeness.<\/p>\n\n

"This is the world that we create for ourselves," Swann said. "And AI should also understand that this is how we speak to one another, because we're teaching it to give that back to us."<\/p>\n\n

Altman, for his part, believes the expense is justified, saying the money spent on polite requests to ChatGPT is money "well spent."<\/p>\n\n

As we navigate this new era, how we interact with AI may shape not just our technology, but our humanity as well.<\/p>\n\n

Possible Preaching Angle: <\/em><\/h2>\n\n

This story about politeness toward AI can be used to illustrate several Biblical themes, such as human dignity, respectful communication, and ethical responsibility. 1) Kindness<\/strong> – Making kindness a habit reflects the nature of God (Eph. 4:32); 2) Human nature<\/strong> – The mother’s desire to “keep myself human” through politeness reflects the imperative of Col. 3:12 “Clothe yourself with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” 3) Respect for others<\/strong> – The husband’s struggle to avoid ChatGPT-style interruptions with his tour guide highlights the tension between efficiency and humility (Phil. 2:3-4). <\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":0,"template":"","tax_ctp_audience":[],"tax_ctp_authors":[],"tax_ctp_categories":[165],"tax_ctp_format":[171],"tax_ctp_illustration_types":[411],"tax_ctp_multimedia":[],"tax_ctp_point_editor":[433],"tax_publications":[140],"tax_ctp_tags":[3624,3655,3702,4092,4173,4181,4191,4321,4488,4818,4891,5009,5010,5129,5171,5226,5292],"tax_ctp_topics":[400],"class_list":["post-33981","sermon-illustrations","type-sermon-illustrations","status-publish","hentry","tax_publications-ct-pastors","tax_ctp_tags-civility","tax_ctp_tags-computers","tax_ctp_tags-courtesy","tax_ctp_tags-gratitude","tax_ctp_tags-human","tax_ctp_tags-human-nature","tax_ctp_tags-humiliation","tax_ctp_tags-kindness","tax_ctp_tags-money","tax_ctp_tags-respect","tax_ctp_tags-science","tax_ctp_tags-social-impact","tax_ctp_tags-social-issues","tax_ctp_tags-technology","tax_ctp_tags-tongue","tax_ctp_tags-values","tax_ctp_tags-words"],"acf":{"scripture_references":[{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null}]},"yoast_head":"\nShould You Thank Chat GPT? - CT Pastors<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/should-you-thank-chat-gpt\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Should You Thank Chat GPT? - CT Pastors\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"A reporter for Business Insider writes: Recently, my family group chat buzzed when I asked if we should say "please" and "thank you" to ChatGPT when making requests. 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