{"id":34841,"date":"2024-07-05T11:14:00","date_gmt":"2024-07-05T11:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/woman-learns-empathy-hard-way\/"},"modified":"2024-07-05T11:14:00","modified_gmt":"2024-07-05T11:14:00","slug":"woman-learns-empathy-hard-way","status":"publish","type":"sermon-illustrations","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/woman-learns-empathy-hard-way\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman Learns Empathy the Hard Way"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A woman in Ohio who threw a burrito bowl at a Chipotle worker and was convicted of assault has been sentenced to an unusual punishment that includes working in fast food for two months.<\/p>\n\n<p>During a dinner rush and while a restaurant was short-staffed, Emily Russell, then the store manager, said she made and then remade an order for Rosemary Hayne. Ms. Hayne was not satisfied with the final product. In a video shared widely online, she can be seen yelling at Ms. Russell before hurling the burrito bowl at her face.<\/p>\n\n<p>&ldquo;I didn&rsquo;t expect it at all,&rdquo; Ms. Russell, 26, said. &ldquo;I just blinked and there was sour cream dripping from my hair.&rdquo; Eventually, someone called the police, Ms. Russell said. The judge offered her a chance to reduce her sentence, with a catch&mdash;60 of her 90 jail days would be suspended if she worked 20 hours a week for eight and a half weeks (or 60 days) at a fast-food restaurant. Ms. Hayne, 39, agreed to take the judge up on his offer, he said. She must complete her time as a fast-food worker by the time she reports to jail.<\/p>\n\n<p>The sentencing came as a surprise to Ms. Russell. &ldquo;I thought she was going to get a slap on the wrist, but she didn&rsquo;t. She is going to get to walk in my shoes,&rdquo; Ms. Russell said.<\/p>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-article-subhead2\">Possible Preaching Angle:<\/h2>\n\n<p><em>That&rsquo;s one way to learn how to walk in someone else&rsquo;s shoes, but as followers of Jesus we should always be quicker to extend compassion and forgiveness to others.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":0,"template":"","tax_ctp_audience":[],"tax_ctp_authors":[],"tax_ctp_categories":[165],"tax_ctp_format":[171],"tax_ctp_illustration_types":[411],"tax_ctp_multimedia":[],"tax_ctp_point_editor":[446],"tax_publications":[140],"tax_ctp_tags":[3367,3414,3648,3703,3856,3857,4010,4174,4181,4255,4744,4762,5119,5208,5238,5294],"tax_ctp_topics":[395,396,403],"class_list":["post-34841","sermon-illustrations","type-sermon-illustrations","status-publish","hentry","tax_publications-ct-pastors","tax_ctp_tags-abuse","tax_ctp_tags-anger","tax_ctp_tags-compassion","tax_ctp_tags-courts","tax_ctp_tags-emotions","tax_ctp_tags-empathy","tax_ctp_tags-forgiveness","tax_ctp_tags-human-anger","tax_ctp_tags-human-nature","tax_ctp_tags-insensitivity","tax_ctp_tags-punishment","tax_ctp_tags-rage","tax_ctp_tags-sympathy","tax_ctp_tags-understanding","tax_ctp_tags-violence","tax_ctp_tags-work-career"],"acf":{"scripture_references":[{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null}]},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Woman Learns Empathy the Hard Way - CT Pastors<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/woman-learns-empathy-hard-way\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Woman Learns Empathy the Hard Way - CT Pastors\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"A woman in Ohio who threw a burrito bowl at a Chipotle worker and was convicted of assault has been sentenced to an unusual punishment that includes working in fast food for two months. 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