{"id":34991,"date":"2024-04-18T17:20:00","date_gmt":"2024-04-18T17:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/dont-be-rude-to-your-chatbot\/"},"modified":"2024-04-18T17:20:00","modified_gmt":"2024-04-18T17:20:00","slug":"dont-be-rude-to-your-chatbot","status":"publish","type":"sermon-illustrations","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/dont-be-rude-to-your-chatbot\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t Be Rude to Your Chatbot"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A nine-year-old boy asked ChatGPT, &ldquo;Is yo&#39; mama so dumb that when she went to sleep, she put a ruler behind her pillow to see how long she slept?&rdquo; The chatbot replied, &ldquo;I&#39;m sorry, but as an AI language model I don&#39;t have a &lsquo;mama&rsquo; or the ability to feel insulted.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n<p>The nine-year-old&#39;s real mom, journalist Linda McRobbie, was disturbed by her son&#39;s rude question. She&rsquo;s not alone. Researchers estimate 54% of all conversations with chatbots contain profanity (often directed at the bot) and 65% contain sexual language. In 2019, about 30% of conversations with Mitsuku, an advanced chatbot contained abusive or sexually harassing language.<\/p>\n\n<p>We might rationalize that a chatbot is just a thing with no feelings. So, what&#39;s the big deal about rudeness? Several things.<\/p>\n\n<p>One is that part of our brains register our conversation with a chatbot as a social interaction with another person. When we hear the chatbot&#39;s voice, we think it&#39;s a real person, according to technology researchers.<\/p>\n\n<p>Secondly, these AI assistants are designed to learn from our interactions with them. Our foul or abusive language may be training Alexa to talk back to us the same way.<\/p>\n\n<p>Thirdly, we&#39;re training ourselves. Author and MIT professor, Sherry Turkle, who studies our relationship with technology says, &quot;Abusing &#8230; Siri, Replika (and other chatbots) coarsens us, not because the chatbots have feelings, but because we do.&quot; Forty years of research suggests that &ldquo;venting&rdquo; rage even at an inanimate object doesn&#39;t reduce anger. It just helps us rehearse it. 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