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Almost 690,000 couples reported getting divorced in 2021, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. That’s about half the number of couples who reported getting married. Most couples file for what is called a no-fault divorce, which means you can dissolve your marriage without showing that either party has committed any wrongdoing.<\/p>\n\n

There are a handful of commonly cited factors that couples feel put a strain on their marriage, according to a Forbes Advisor survey. These conflicts include (in ascending order):<\/p>\n\n

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#6 – Finances<\/p>\n

#5 – Relationships with Friends<\/p>\n

#4 – Relationships with Family<\/p>\n

#3 – Division of Household Labor<\/p>\n

#2 – Parenting differences<\/p>\n

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The biggest conflict divorced couples encountered, with 46% naming it:<\/p>\n\n

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#1 – Career choices<\/p>\n

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Only 5% of divorcees say there was no way their marriage could have been saved, the survey says. A whopping 63% said that having a better understanding of commitment prior to marrying could have helped them avoid divorce. And 54% said that if they had a better understanding of their spouse’s morals and values prior to getting married, they might still be together.<\/p>\n\n

Editor’s Note:<\/strong> The Forbes Advisor survey is well worth looking at for its wide-ranging statistics on the state of marriage and divorce in 2023. You can access the results of this survey here<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Possible Preaching Angle:<\/h2>\n\n

It is important to keep in mind that this survey was taken of society as a whole. 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