{"id":35587,"date":"2023-08-04T11:29:00","date_gmt":"2023-08-04T11:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/bullied-kid-receives-outpouring-of-support\/"},"modified":"2023-08-04T11:29:00","modified_gmt":"2023-08-04T11:29:00","slug":"bullied-kid-receives-outpouring-of-support","status":"publish","type":"sermon-illustrations","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/bullied-kid-receives-outpouring-of-support\/","title":{"rendered":"Bullied Kid Receives Outpouring of Support"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Shayden Walker didn&rsquo;t know what was waiting for him on the other side of his neighbor&rsquo;s doorbell. All he knew was he needed some help. &quot;I was wanting to see if you knew any kids around 11 or 12 maybe,&rdquo; said Shayden, in footage caught on the neighbor&rsquo;s doorbell camera. &ldquo;Cause I need some friends real bad,&quot; explaining that he&rsquo;d been bullied at school.<\/p>\n\n<p>As it turns out, his neighbors in the Ray family didn&rsquo;t have any kids his age. But one of them had a TikTok account, where they posted the video of their encounter with Shayden. It went viral, being viewed over six million times.<\/p>\n\n<p>Shayden&rsquo;s mother, Krishna Patterson said, &quot;He&#39;s been hospitalized because the bullying was so bad and he felt so isolated.&rdquo; Shayden said, &ldquo;What my life was like before &#8230; kids were manipulating me and (said) they would be my friend. 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