{"id":36115,"date":"2022-12-12T11:26:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-12T11:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/cowardly-men-love-abortion\/"},"modified":"2022-12-12T11:26:00","modified_gmt":"2026-01-23T19:07:58","slug":"cowardly-men-love-abortion","status":"publish","type":"sermon-illustrations","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/cowardly-men-love-abortion\/","title":{"rendered":"Cowardly Men Love Abortion"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In late 2021, a young man by the name of Kaivan Shroff published an article entitled, &ldquo;Men like me benefit from safe abortion access.&rdquo; By &ldquo;men like me,&rdquo; Shroff clearly means successful men, men who are too busy to care about any aspect of their sexual activity other than enjoyment, let alone take responsibility for it. Thanks to abortion, neither the needs and desires of the woman involved nor the life of the child who might come into being must enter his calculation.<\/p>\n\n<p>According to his lengthy bio, Shroff is very important. He&rsquo;s a senior adviser to D.C. non-profit and a former staffer for Hillary Clinton campaign&rsquo;s digital team. Not to mention he has an MBA from Yale and a BA from Brown&mdash;and, he is about to graduate from law school. He certainly doesn&rsquo;t need a child to complicate all of that success.<\/p>\n\n<p>Shroff tells us, &ldquo;In many ways, it feels like my life is just about to begin. It would be a terrible time to have a baby.&rdquo; He wants to have kids someday. But he&rsquo;s not in a relationship and after suffering through the pandemic, he&rsquo;s ready &ldquo;to eke out and enjoy every last minute of my 20s.&rdquo; So, while he&rsquo;s busy sowing his wild oats, any children he happens to father will just have to meet their untimely end, at least until the time is right for him.<\/p>\n\n<p>Legal scholar Erika Bachiochi writes, &ldquo;While pregnant, a woman is carrying a new and vulnerable human being within her. Unlike a biological father, a pregnant woman cannot just walk away; a pregnant woman must engage in a life-destroying act.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n<p>Abortion, in other words, facilitates the sexual desires of cowardly, irresponsible men to abandon their unborn child and their child&rsquo;s mother&mdash;while encouraging women to &ldquo;free&rdquo; themselves from the tyranny of their biology by committing an act of violence against their unborn child.<\/p>\n\n<p>But what Shroff doesn&rsquo;t acknowledge is that abortion isn&rsquo;t cost-free. While it enables him to walk away from sex with nary a consequence, it requires much of women, much that doesn&rsquo;t set them &ldquo;free&rdquo; at all.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":0,"template":"","tax_ctp_audience":[],"tax_ctp_authors":[],"tax_ctp_categories":[165],"tax_ctp_format":[171],"tax_ctp_illustration_types":[411],"tax_ctp_multimedia":[],"tax_ctp_point_editor":[433],"tax_publications":[140],"tax_ctp_tags":[3361,3466,3493,3572,3675,3708,3726,4110,4178,4184,4213,4282,4454,4520,4692,4821,4937,4980,4982,5288],"tax_ctp_topics":[390,397],"class_list":["post-36115","sermon-illustrations","type-sermon-illustrations","status-publish","hentry","tax_publications-ct-pastors","tax_ctp_tags-abortion","tax_ctp_tags-baby","tax_ctp_tags-bioethics","tax_ctp_tags-choice","tax_ctp_tags-consecration","tax_ctp_tags-covetousness","tax_ctp_tags-culture","tax_ctp_tags-guilt","tax_ctp_tags-human-dignity","tax_ctp_tags-human-worth","tax_ctp_tags-image-of-god","tax_ctp_tags-irresponsibility","tax_ctp_tags-men","tax_ctp_tags-national-sanctity-of-life-day","tax_ctp_tags-pregnancy","tax_ctp_tags-responsibility","tax_ctp_tags-selfishness","tax_ctp_tags-sinful-desires","tax_ctp_tags-sinful-pleasure","tax_ctp_tags-womens-issues"],"acf":{"scripture_references":[{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null}]},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.9 - 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