{"id":36481,"date":"2022-07-08T13:02:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-08T13:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/worried-new-mother-asks-for-advice-on-parenting\/"},"modified":"2022-07-08T13:02:00","modified_gmt":"2022-07-08T13:02:00","slug":"worried-new-mother-asks-for-advice-on-parenting","status":"publish","type":"sermon-illustrations","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/worried-new-mother-asks-for-advice-on-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"Worried New Mother Asks for Advice on Parenting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Moms and dads understandably experience a great deal of worry and uncertainty when choosing a parenting style. A recent article by <em>Good Housekeeping&#39;s<\/em> Editor and Chief, Jane Francisco, offered this advice:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>When my son was a toddler, I struggled with the concept of discipline, how to know what was too much&thinsp;&hellip;&thinsp;or not enough. So, I called up my dad, a teacher for decades, and asked him what parenting style he thought yielded the most well-adjusted kids. His answer was pretty simple: You can&rsquo;t really go wrong as long as a) your child clearly understands that they are loved unconditionally and b) your approach to discipline is consistent, regardless of how strict (or not!) you are.<\/p>\n<p>The takeaway? I probably won&rsquo;t mess up my kid too badly as long as I deliver love and consistency (and don&rsquo;t accidentally put him out with the recycling!). My dad&rsquo;s &ldquo;recipe&rdquo; certainly calms me when the idea of parenting becomes overwhelming, and I hope it has the same effect on you &#8230; there is no single &ldquo;right&rdquo; way&thinsp;&mdash;&thinsp;and being a parent can be an adventure as original as you are.<\/p>\n<p>\n\n\n\n<\/p>\n\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-article-subhead2\">Possible Preaching Angle:<\/h2>\n\n<p><em>Raising God&#39;s children is a weighty task. If you&#39;re not concerned about how you do it, you&#39;re likely doing it wrong. But parenting is simpler than we make it. 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