{"id":36863,"date":"2022-01-20T12:19:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-20T12:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/hollywoods-unrealistic-love-stories\/"},"modified":"2022-01-20T12:19:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T12:19:00","slug":"hollywoods-unrealistic-love-stories","status":"publish","type":"sermon-illustrations","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/hollywoods-unrealistic-love-stories\/","title":{"rendered":"Hollywood\u2019s Unrealistic Love Stories"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In a recent <em>Cosmopolitan<\/em> article, Pauline Jayne Isaac lists the 36 greatest on-screen love stories of all time. She begins:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>The most famous movie couples have the ability to turn cynics into believers, critics into fans, and can even warm the iciest of hearts. Whether it&#39;s a romantic comedy or a drama&mdash;the outcome is the same. Love stories make you believe in love.<\/p>\n<p>\n\n<\/p>\n\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>But the title reveals a problem; &quot;Sorry, But I Just Have to Say It: These Iconic Movie Couples Gave Me Unrealistic Expectations About Love.&rdquo; Unrealistic expectations are, of course, a key issue in marriages.<\/p>\n\n<p>Over the years, of course, countless love stories have been told at the box office. Isaac limited her list by selecting stories that met three criteria: &quot;the couples have to be aspirational, the chemistry palpable, and most importantly, the love has to be intense.&quot;<\/p>\n\n<p>Perhaps Hollywood love stories create unrealistic expectations because they are not love stories. 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