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Demi Lovato and the Australian singer\/songwriter Sam Fisher recently collaborated on a piece titled “What Other People Say” that reveals this generation's realization that living for the affirmation of others cannot fill the void in our heart.<\/p>\n\n

Some of the lyrics from the radio edit of the song:<\/p>\n\n

\n

Thought when I grew up<\/p>\n

I would be the same as the ones who gave me my last name<\/p>\n

I would not give in, I would not partake<\/p>\n

In the same old drugs everyone else takes<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

I'm better than that, I'm better than that<\/p>\n

I'm living my life so I go to heaven and never come back<\/p>\n

But look where I'm at, look where I'm at<\/p>\n

I'm living the life that I said I wouldn't, I wanna go back<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

I used to call my mom every Sunday<\/p>\n

So she knew her love wasn't far away<\/p>\n

But now I'm all messed up out in LA<\/p>\n

'Cause I care more about what other people say<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

I used to not take chances with God's name<\/p>\n

But it's been so long since I last prayed<\/p>\n

And now I'm all messed up and my heart's changed<\/p>\n

'Cause I care more about what other people say<\/p>\n

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The song so resonated with Lovato she shared, "When I first heard this song, I cried. These lyrics resonate so much with me and are super meaningful. This song is a reflection on what it's like to lose who you truly are in an effort to please other people and society."<\/p>\n\n

Fischer added, "'What Other People Say' is a confession, realizing how far away you can get from who you are in an effort to be liked. 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