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And she helped pave the way for the first African-American woman to sit in the US Congress.<\/p>\n<p>It&#39;s beautiful that the people &hellip; are remembered &hellip; in terms of helping people &hellip; And even more fascinating was the fact that the overwhelming majority of obituaries featured people famous and non-famous who did seemingly extraordinary things. They made a positive dent in the fabric of life. They helped &hellip; It was beautiful how that word stood out so strongly.<\/p>\n<p>\n\n\n\n<\/p>\n\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-article-subhead2\">Possible Preaching Angles:<\/h2>\n\n<p><em>1) Easter; Redeemer; Savior &ndash; In his death (and resurrection) Jesus is the supreme example of unselfishly helping others. 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