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Compared to prior generations, today&#39;s college students are harder on themselves, more demanding of others, and report higher levels of social pressure to be perfect.<\/p>\n\n<p>The study examined over 40,000 college students who took a special survey between 1989 and 2016. The more recent students scored higher in all three forms of perfectionism. Between 1989 and 2016, the scores for socially prescribed perfectionism&mdash;or perceiving the excessive expectations of others&mdash;increased by 33 percent. 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