{"id":40185,"date":"2016-12-12T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-12-12T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/newlywed-couple-has-first-dance-in-midst-of-traffic-jam\/"},"modified":"2016-12-12T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2016-12-12T00:00:00","slug":"newlywed-couple-has-first-dance-in-midst-of-traffic-jam","status":"publish","type":"sermon-illustrations","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/newlywed-couple-has-first-dance-in-midst-of-traffic-jam\/","title":{"rendered":"Newlywed Couple Has First Dance in the Midst of a Traffic Jam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#39;s a common wedding scenario: ceremony takes place in one location, guests and wedding party hop in their cars and take a quick trip to the reception venue. Simple, right?<\/p>\n\n<p>For one Ohio couple, things got a little more complicated. After their ceremony, Jeff and Rebecca Payne left for the reception, along with the rest of their guests. They were met with an unexpected (and unwelcome) surprise: a traffic jam that left them sitting on U.S. Route 35.<\/p>\n\n<p>After being parked there for an hour, another surprise development unfolded. A couple of fellow drivers, who had &quot;noticed the wedding dress and asked what [the couple] would be doing if they weren&#39;t stuck in traffic,&quot; had a creative idea: how about have the first dance right there on the highway?<\/p>\n\n<p>Jeff and Rebecca decided to do it, getting out of the car and dancing to an Alison Krauss song (a bystander played it from their Spotify).<\/p>\n\n<p>Another bystander, who filmed the dance, said that the newlyweds &quot;were two sports. They handled the whole thing so well. They did great. The dance turned it into a party.&quot;<\/p>\n\n<p>Thankfully, the unconventional first dance turned into a happily-ever-after: &quot;[A] friend of the groom&#39;s father pulled up in the opposite lane, so the Paynes could hop over a guardrail, get into the car and start the rest of their life.&quot;<\/p>\n\n<p><em>Potential Preaching Angles: &quot;Stuck,&quot; &quot;waiting&quot;&mdash;they&#39;re not fun words, and they&#39;re not fun feelings, yet we so often find ourselves describing our situations with them. How are we hoping and keeping faith until we&#39;re able to hop over our own guardrails and &quot;escape&quot;? 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