{"id":43113,"date":"2013-02-18T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2013-02-18T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/song-of-songs-will-reach-unchurched\/"},"modified":"2013-02-18T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2013-02-18T00:00:00","slug":"song-of-songs-will-reach-unchurched","status":"publish","type":"sermon-illustrations","link":"https:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/pastors\/preaching\/sermon-illustrations\/song-of-songs-will-reach-unchurched\/","title":{"rendered":"The Song of Songs Will Reach the Unchurched"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Isn&#39;t the Bible amazing? It has a whole book&mdash;the Song of Songs&mdash;that is primarily an unabashed celebration of the pleasure of physical intimacy [in marriage] &hellip;. Now that will preach! [It will especially] preach to those who would never come to church, lift a Bible, or listen to a sermon.<\/p>\n\n<p>Think with me for a moment. Imagine a woman coming to church for the first time in ten years. She hears a sermon [based on the unabashed celebration of marital sex found in the Song of Songs]. When she returns home after the service, her husband is reclining on the couch, watching the football game. It&#39;s a commercial, so he generously mutes the television and asks, &quot;So how was it?&quot;<\/p>\n\n<p>&quot;Fine,&quot; she says.<\/p>\n\n<p>&quot;Well, what did the pastor talk about?&quot;<\/p>\n\n<p>&quot;Oh,&quot; she says, &quot;he talked about how wives should be more aggressive in bed.&quot;<\/p>\n\n<p>&quot;What!&quot; He turns off the TV.<\/p>\n\n<p><em>&quot;Yeah,<\/em> he said something about how wives should be more aggressive in bed. It&#39;s in the Bible, I guess. 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