The primary reason the majority of kids from Christian homes stray from the faith is that they never really heard it or had it to begin with …. Scratch the surface of the faith of the young people around you and you'll find a disturbing deficiency of understanding of even the most basic tenets of Christianity.<\/p>\n\n
This is illustrated by a conversation I recently had with a young woman in her early twenties who had been raised in a Christian home and had attended church for most of her life. After assuring me that she was, indeed, saved, I asked her, "What does it mean to be a Christian?"<\/p>\n\n
She replied, "It means that you ask Jesus into your heart."<\/p>\n\n
"Yes, all right, but what does that mean?"<\/p>\n\n
"It means that you ask Jesus to forgive you."<\/p>\n\n
"Okay, but what do you ask him to forgive you for?"<\/p>\n\n
"Bad things? I guess you ask him to forgive you for bad things, the sins you do."<\/p>\n\n
"Like what?"<\/p>\n\n
A deer in the headlights stared back at me. I thought I'd try a different tack.<\/p>\n\n
"Why would Jesus forgive you?"<\/p>\n\n
She fidgeted. "Um, because you ask him?"<\/p>\n\n
[I asked], "What do you think God wants you to know?"<\/p>\n\n
She beamed. "He wants me to know that I should love myself and that there's nothing I can't do if I think I can."<\/p>\n\n
"And what does God want from you?" I asked.<\/p>\n\n
"He wants me to do good stuff …. You know, be nice to others and don't hang around with bad people."<\/p>\n\n
[Apparently], we've transformed the holy, terrifying, magnificent, and loving God of the Bible into Santa and his elves. And instead of transmitting the gloriously liberating and life-changing truths of the gospel, we have taught our children that what God wants from them is morality. We have told them that being good<\/em> (at least outwardly) is the be-all and end-all of their faith. This isn't the gospel; we're not handing down Christianity.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":0,"template":"","tax_ctp_audience":[],"tax_ctp_authors":[],"tax_ctp_categories":[165],"tax_ctp_format":[171],"tax_ctp_illustration_types":[411],"tax_ctp_multimedia":[],"tax_ctp_point_editor":[],"tax_publications":[140],"tax_ctp_tags":[3569,4085,4318,4360,4490,4596,4597,4878,5130,5298,5314],"tax_ctp_topics":[],"class_list":["post-43399","sermon-illustrations","type-sermon-illustrations","status-publish","hentry","tax_publications-ct-pastors","tax_ctp_tags-children","tax_ctp_tags-gospel","tax_ctp_tags-justification-by-faith","tax_ctp_tags-legalism","tax_ctp_tags-moralism","tax_ctp_tags-parenting","tax_ctp_tags-parents","tax_ctp_tags-salvation-by-faith","tax_ctp_tags-teens","tax_ctp_tags-works-righteousness","tax_ctp_tags-youth"],"acf":{"scripture_references":[{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null},{"first_verse":null,"add_second_verse":false,"second_verse":null}]},"yoast_head":"\n