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About 30 kids came out and filled up the risers, all tucked together. One willing-hearted teacher up front led them in &quot;Joy to the World.&quot; She had a nylon string guitar that probably hadn&#39;t been played since the Christmas program the year before, and that was probably the last time it was tuned as well. Nevertheless, she had a willing heart.<\/p>\n\n<p>The kids were only three years old. They could barely speak in complete sentences, let alone sing full measures of music. Undaunted, the teacher began her solo\u0097&quot;Joy to the world!&quot;\u0097but the kids were more interested in locating their parents: &quot;Hi, Daddy! Hi, Mom!&quot; The teacher kept singing, &quot;Joy to the world!&quot; Then Amy saw me. I took a picture of her. The teacher kept singing, &quot;Joy to the world!&quot; Just then one of the boys in the back of the risers began to fall backwards. He bravely took four others with him. Bang! She kept singing, &quot;Joy to the world!&quot;<\/p>\n\n<p>It was absolute chaos: formless and void. When the song was done, I was the first to jump to my feet like popping corn. The parents gave the kids a standing ovation. We took pictures. It was like Halley&#39;s comet had just come through the room. We were all so proud.<\/p>\n\n<p>After it was done, I went outside to get some air, and I was chuckling to myself. I thought, <em>We just gave a standing ovation to the worst concert we&#39;ve ever heard. I just took pictures of the worst concert I&#39;ve ever heard.<\/em> Then I thought, <em>But wasn&#39;t Amy good? She&#39;s cool. <\/em><\/p>\n\n<p>Why in the world did I applaud? It wasn&#39;t because of their performance. It was because that was my little girl up there. I applauded them based not on performance but on relationship. When I was thinking about that, it was as if the Lord again reminded me: Wayne, that&#39;s why I applaud you. 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