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Why Divorce Devastates Children

Divorce pulls the rug out from under a child's sense of self, contends Andrew Root in 'The Children of Divorce.'

I begged her not to marry him. Our family members pleaded—all to no avail. She would have none of it. She claimed we were being negative, blind to all of his wonderful attributes. Only recently, after eight years of a tense and tumultuous marriage, after giving birth to three beautiful girls now ages 7, 6, and 5, and after he reconnected with his junior high flame on Facebook and filed for divorce, does she now see what we all saw back then.

This week, a dear friend who lives across the country contacted me to tell me that her husband left her in February without any explanation. She's reeling. They'd been married 20-plus years, and she didn't see it coming. No one did. To top it off, in the next week or so, her two daughters will graduate, one from high school and the other from college. These young women are now forced to negotiate important milestones in the midst of the dissolution of their Christian family.

Strangely, these sad stories came while I was reading The Children Of ...

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