Womanhood by the Book
As a 30-something, married mom of four, I am no longer a girl. But the word "woman" is a weighty term I'm not sure I qualify for.
To me, woman designates someone of enormous and quiet strength, bearing the weight of her world with grace and a smile. Hardworking, savvy, and smart, yet kind, nurturing, and warm. Much of this image comes from my own mother, of course, but a large part of it also comes from the pop culture I grew up with.
Our popular definition and image of womanhood bends and stretches to encompass new realities and lifestyles as times change. Women are caring for aging parents and young children. They are entering ministry and moving their families to further burgeoning careers. They are keeping house and earning paychecks and feeling torn in different directions by all of it. They're struggling (like I am) to understand how they measure up against the generations before and the representation of womanhood they internalized over the years.
These new realities have created a publishing trend for authors and editors to attempt to capture the essence of femaleness and market it for mass consumption. Blogs and books present vignettes of the "every woman," draw battle lines in an attempt to force identity (think "mommy wars"), or debate the modern woman's role within the strictures of the church.
For instance, three recently released books—Jesus Feminist, Talking Taboo, and the Book of Jezebel—present ...1