I’m Childless, Not Child-Incompetent
We hear a lot about the Mommy Wars. But there's another cultural throwdown going on in the parenting sphere, and that's the back-and-forth between parents and non-parents. This increasingly acrimonious debate gets summed-up in lists of ill-informed assumptions and casually dished-out stereotypes. Both sides fall back increasingly on the old "You just don't know what it's like to be us!," with blog posts like:
- 5 Things Parents Need to Stop Saying to Non-Parents
- 17 Untruths People Believe About Non-Parents
- What Is the Deal With the Child-Free Group Hating Children?
- STFU, Childless People
- Smug Parents
The assumptions we throw at each other are unfair and often hurtful.
Some parents, dealing with the grueling 24/7 reality of raising children, dwell on how the childless just can't understand them. That sense of belonging to a special, misunderstood group can make anyone who's struggling feel a little better. Most of us fall prey to that kind of temptation now and ...1