Hard Questions Theme of the Week: Get Real: The Key to Genuine Friendship Monday, May 19, 2014 Average rating:
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Key Bible Verse: [God] grants a treasure of common sense to the honest. He is a shield to those who walk with integrity. (Proverbs 2:7)
Dig Deeper: Proverbs 2:1-8
People of integrity do what they say they will do; the substance of their hearts is expressed through their actions. Ask yourself these questions, and answer them honestly:
When I say I will show up for an appointment at a specific time, do I show up on time?
If I have signed a credit card application agreeing to pay my creditors each month, do I pay them when payments are due?
If I have committed to marriage vows, am I keeping them?
Do I honor my commitments to family members (including my children), rather than repeatedly letting them down?
Am I an honest employee?
Am I honest about my weaknesses and flaws?
Do I exaggerate my own abilities?
Do I tell half-truths or "white lies"?
Do I flatter people to gain their approval?
Do I minimize or give damaging reports of others to make myself look good?
These questions can all be answered with one word:
yes or no. Once you have answered them, I recommend that you examine your responses and ask yourself why you answered yes or no.
—Van Moody in
The People Factor
My Response: I will ask myself these questions and then reflect prayerfully and honestly on why I answered each question as I did.
by Van Moody (Thomas Nelson, 2014) by permission. All rights reserved by the copyright holder and/or the publisher. May not be reproduced. The People Factor
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Prayer for the Week
Heavenly Father, impress upon me the need to have genuine friendships with a few trustworthy Christian guys. Show me how to relate to them man-to-man in ways that foster honesty, build community, and promote personal growth.
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