Saying the Hard Stuff Sometimes we have to deliver an unwelcome message. Gordon Macdonald
April 1, 2005
One of the first pastors of the church in Ephesus, Timothy, apparently didn't like the hard stuff side of ministry. And that worried his mentor, Paul, considerably and explains much of the content of the two letters written to Timothy in the New Testament. Ephesus was a tough city, and the Ephesian Christians were tough people—many of them freshly converted out of unspeakably dark spiritual conditions. My suspicion is that Timothy found Ephesus and its Christians a bit more than he could handle and wanted out. Perhaps that explains why Paul begins the correspondence by saying, "Stay there!" Timothy was, apparently, a nice and gentle young man. "I have no one like him," Paul wrote the Philippians, "who will so naturally care for you." Quite a compliment. But he seemed to struggle with hard stuff. I'm talking about the kind of preaching and discipling that exposes errant belief, sinful attitudes, and ungodly behavior. hard stuff: calling people to sacrificial living. hard stuff makes people squirm, sometimes angry. But it may cause them to be repentant and eager to find better ways. Timothy seems similarly reluctant in personal pastoral conversations. Good at eliciting how people feel, where they hurt, where they are struggling (many pastors do this well), he may have backed off from the confrontations necessary to expose people's sin and destructive behavior. One of the earlier hard-stuff messages in the Bible was God's to Cain: "Sin is lurking at your door, and you must master it." Paul is wishing he heard more of that from Timothy. Preach hard stuff (in Timothy's day as well as ours) and you run the risk that people will leave the church, or that they will make the preacher leave the church. I am reminded of the cartoon ...
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