Article

THE FINE LINE BETWEEN MINE AND THINE

A friend grew up on the mission field. For him, the distinction between what belonged to the mission and what belonged to the missionary was never entirely clear. Later, as a pastor, the graying of the line between church property and pastor’s possessions led to financial abuse and an eventual conviction for embezzling church funds.

Since then, I have reflected a lot on the distinction between mine and thine. That distinction, I’ve found, is not always clear. Consider the following:

Office Supplies. When is it appropriate to use church letterhead? Church stamps? How much of the letter must be ministry related to justify the church’s paying for it?

Telephone. Should the church pay for a call to my parents to consult about a church problem? How about the long-distance call to a pastor friend (we’re both in the Lord’s work, aren’t we)? Should my present church pay for calls to former parishioners regarding issues related to my previous ministry?

Publications. If your church provides a book and/or subscription fund, are those items purchased in your name or the church’s? Do they remain with the church when you leave?

Automobile. Our church has a gas credit card for refueling the church van. Am I entitled to use that card to fill up my car if it is used for a church outing?

Hospitality. Was the breakfast I had this morning business or personal? What constitutes ministry? How much of the conversation over the meal would have to be about church or spiritual matters to justify reimbursement?

Continuing education. What is a pastor entitled to charge against the conference account? Do conferences have to be directly related to one’s profession? What about classes to retrain for another specialty? If the church sends you to a conference, are you obligated to attend the entire conference, or is some time off legitimate?

Time. I’m writing this article during normal working hours. Should I confine my writing to other than “company time”? What if I’m writing sermons or teaching material that can double as publishable material? Am I entitled to the profits?

I don’t have any easy answers. Ministry and personal life are almost inseparable. I’ve found more questions than answers. But integrity demands that we constantly be asking the question, “Is this mine or thine?” To stop asking the question, or to cease being willing to discuss the matter openly with the board, is to invite compromise of our personal integrity.

-Richard L. Bergstrom

Euzoa Bible Church

Steamboat Springs, Colorado

Leadership Spring 1988 p. 40

Copyright © 1988 by the author or Christianity Today/Leadership Journal. Click here for reprint information on Leadership Journal.

Posted April 1, 1988

Also in this issue

The Leadership Journal archives contain over 35 years of issues. These archives contain a trove of pastoral wisdom, leadership skills, and encouragement for your calling.

GAINING RESPECT THE OLD-FASHIONED WAY

How to earn the congregation’s esteem–and what to do when you don’t get it.

The Character Question

How the church has answered throughout history.

PIECING TOGETHER A SHATTERED CHURCH

How do you minister to a congregation whose trust has been broken?

KEY QUESTIONS IN MARITAL COUNSELING

Most second marriages fail, but helping couples face the issues squarely improves their chances for success.

FROM THE EDITORS

POLICIES AND PROCEDURES REGARDING AIDS

WATER IN THE WADERS

CARING FOR HOMOSEXUALS WITH AIDS

Richard C. Eyer

STARING AT A JUDGMENT CALL

You wish issues were clear-cut. But sometimes you’re torn between two druthers. Then what?

SMALL-CHURCH RADIO MINISTRY

HOLDING YOUR GROUND

How to maintain your integrity when everyone wants you to give in.

Turning Points: 8 Ethical Choices

Some decisions in the ministry are complex … and unavoidable.

IN SEARCH OF ORDINARY EXCELLENCE

Endangered by Endowments?

BEING MORAL ISN'T ALWAYS ENOUGH

What you may do and what you should do are two different things.

THE BACK PAGE

PEOPLE IN PRINT

ACCOUNTABILITY THAT MAKES SENSE

How can you talk in a healthy way about the difficult issues of money, sex, and power?

AN AIDS POLICY: TWO CHURCHES' SEARCH

What official stance should a congregation take toward members with AIDS?

THE WHIMSICAL SEVEN

A look at the cartoonists whose pens loose your laughter.

LEARNING THE HARD WAY

LEADERSHIP BIBLIOGRAPHY—INTEGRITY

INTEGRITY UNDER PRESSURE

An interview with Mark O Hatfield.

THREE KINDS OF CREDIBILITY

To Illustrate…

The Double Danger of Earthly Delights

What I Can and Can't Discuss at Home

Candor and compassion may lead in different directions.

“BUT I’M AN EXCEPTION!”

HOW PURE MUST A PASTOR BE?

A Leadership Forum

View issue


Our Latest

Apple PodcastsDown ArrowDown ArrowDown Arrowarrow_left_altLeft ArrowLeft ArrowRight ArrowRight ArrowRight Arrowarrow_up_altUp ArrowUp ArrowAvailable at Amazoncaret-downCloseCloseEmailEmailExpandExpandExternalExternalFacebookfacebook-squareGiftGiftGooglegoogleGoogle KeephamburgerInstagraminstagram-squareLinkLinklinkedin-squareListenListenListenChristianity TodayCT Creative Studio Logologo_orgMegaphoneMenuMenupausePinterestPlayPlayPocketPodcastRSSRSSSaveSaveSaveSearchSearchsearchSpotifyStitcherTelegramTable of ContentsTable of Contentstwitter-squareWhatsAppXYouTubeYouTube
Down ArrowbookCloseExpandExternalsearch