Three ways our prayers tell us about our faith.
| posted 3/18/2009
Let's play a game. No, not Chutes and Ladders—sorry. The long slide that thwarts my march to victory right before I defeat my three-year-old son is just too frustrating. Instead, take out a piece of paper and write down your last five prayers. Even though this is called the prayer game there are no points, so feel free to be honest. Now read back through them and answer a few questions. Who do these prayers impact? How do they line up with God's desires for people and this world? Why did you pray for these things? The point of this game isn't to be the first to the finish, but to discover what our prayers say about our faith.
I love myself!
Our daughter is fond of telling people she loves them. But her greatest joy is expressing her love for herself. She'll look at me with a little smile and say, "Daddy, I love you. And I love Mommy." Then the little smile turns into a broad grin and she exclaims, "And I love myself!" Sometimes our prayer life is the adult equivalent of that proclamation. We don't express our self-love quite so bluntly, but it comes through just as clearly.
How many of those five things you wrote down were things you prayed for yourself? If all or even most of them are, you might be showing yourself a little too much love. There is nothing wrong with bringing your personal concerns before our Father; he invites it. First Peter 5:7, echoing Psalm 55:22, says you should "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." Bringing your struggles and joys before God is an indicator of a strong relationship with him. It is just important that this is balanced with prayer focused on others and on God's kingdom. Matthew 6:33 says, "Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." That pursuit should be evident in what we pray. And a life following Christ is one that is lived for him in service to others. Jesus said that he came not to be served, but to serve. If we are following his example, our prayers will reflect it.
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Think about the last time you were in a group setting and someone asked if there were prayer requests. Too many times I've been in that situation and had to explore the dusty corners of my mind for one thing to share. A couple of times my inability to come up with anything led to the infamous "unspoken request." If you haven't been introduced to this little secret of group prayer time, you're in for a treat! The unspoken request is supposed to be something a person feels they can't reveal, but that warrants a need for prayer. Something so weighty, they are unable to share the details. I know I might have my Christian card revoked for this, but a couple of times I used the "unspoken request" to make it seem like I had something to pray about when the reality was I couldn't think of a solitary thing. Having nothing to pray for made a bold statement about the extent to which I was living in step with God.