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Tullian Tchividjian: Allow Your Critics to Teach You

The new pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church talks about the effort to remove him from the pulpit.

Tullian Tchividjian survived an attempt Sunday by dissident church members to remove him as senior pastor of the 2,500-member Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

The daughter of the late D. James Kennedy, Tchividjian's predecessor, was among six Coral Ridge members who circulated a petition calling for the new pastor's ouster. Kennedy, who founded Knox Theological Seminary, a political advocacy organization, and several very popular broadcasting programs, served as Coral Ridge's first—and only—pastor from 1960 until his death in 2007.

With Tchividjian's hiring in March as the second pastor in the church's history, the South Florida congregation he founded —New City Church— merged with Coral Ridge.

He spoke this week with Christianity Today about the conflict at Coral Ridge, its impact on Christian witness, and his grandfather Billy Graham's advice on using the turmoil for God's purposes.

Conflict seems to be everywhere, from the debate over national health care to Kanye West interrupting Taylor Swift on stage at MTV's Video Music Awards. Given the high-profile dispute at Coral Ridge, how do you persuade the world that the church is any different?

I'm not sure that the difference between the church and the world is the absence of conflict. We are all fallen people in a broken world. The difference is how we respond to conflict and how we recover from conflict.

My hope and prayer is that here at Coral Ridge, we will respond to this conflict in a way that demonstrates for the watching world the reconciling power of the gospel.

If you were an unchurched person reading about dissident church members trying to oust their pastor, how open would you be to seeing Christianity as the answer for your life?

Not very open. Francis Schaeffer once said that division inside the church gives the world the justification they're looking for not to believe.

This conflict ensued because those who had a grievance did not come to me or the leadership of the church, but they took it to the street. They did not follow Matthew 18.

As a result of not handling their grievance or their complaint biblically, conflict ensued and we gave the world the justification they're looking for not to believe the gospel.

I have every reason to believe that God has allowed this conflict to take place so that the way we recover from this will be a powerful demonstration of the gospel.

From a public standpoint, how do you go about discussing this controversy in a way that doesn't make the situation worse?

My commitment is to speak about those who opposed me in a forgiving manner, in a Christ-like manner. I will, by God's grace, do my best to take the high road, to not disparage anybody, to operate in a posture of understanding. Some of these people had only had one pastor ever. So that's going to be hard for some people.

So I am very much working hard to treat those who have opposed me the way God and Christ treated me.

Ninety-one percent of Coral Ridge members supported your hiring earlier this year. In the vote Sunday, 71 percent voted against ending the church's relationship with you. That's still a two-thirds majority, but how do you get back the support you have lost? Do you even try?

It's a bit misleading. Anybody who was registered as a member was eligible to vote. However, there were about 150 people who came on the day of the vote who hadn't been to this church since before I got here. But they had friends who were unhappy and came back to vote with their friends.


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I love irony

October 03, 2009  9:14am

What's a baffoon? Want to try again?

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October 03, 2009  12:00am

I love touching my nipples while I watch all you idiots make baffoons of each other.

Anonymous

October 02, 2009  10:19am

Since we're quoting scripture, here's a relevant one from Jer 23:1 in 3 different versions: AKJ: "Woe be to the pastors that destroy and scatter the sheep of my pasture! said the LORD"; BBE: "A curse is on the keepers who are causing the destruction and loss of the sheep of my field, says the Lord"; GWT: "How horrible it will be for the shepherds who are destroying and scattering the sheep in my care," declares the LORD.

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