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Thoughts from a Simple-Minded Jesus Lover

The great gay Christian debate is never-ending, one-dimensional, and somewhat pointless.
(c) Mark Goddard 2007

Thoughts from a Simple-Minded Jesus Lover

Everyone is clamoring for the No. 1 spot in the great gay Christian debate. For some, it isn't enough that people hold to a traditional, conservative, and biblical sexual ethic; they also want to emphasize that homosexual sexual expression is more egregious than other sexual sins and deserves greater judgment and eternal consequence.

Others insist that there are no scriptural mandates limiting homosexual sexual expression for believers. While most of us would never even question heterosexual sexual ethics, some seem fine with making special exceptions for the gay or lesbian person.

I find the arguments above exhausting. They are never-ending, one-dimensional, and somewhat pointless in the grand scheme of things. In the words of my 7-year-old, "That argument is so last year." Out of the mouths of babes.

None of this is rocket science. I am not a Bible scholar (though I greatly appreciate them and their role in my life and in this discussion), but I am a believer in the one true Christ and nothing gets more attention or time in my life than him. While "theologian" isn't in my title, I do take studying God's Word seriously and read it more than any other book. So, as others identify as Wesleyan Arminian Christians, Calvinist Christians, Anabaptist Christians, gay or ex-gay Christians, I have to admit I am just, simply, irrevocably, a Christian. I am not smart enough and don't have enough time to know how those other labels would fit or serve me or those to whom I have been called to minister.

Let's get to the point. According to John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoeverbelieves in him shall not perish, but have eternal life [emphasis mine]." It is this verse that the majority of end-zone evangelists use to win people to Jesus. No one in Christendom—to my knowledge—is up in arms about this common practice or commonly used verse. And, while I don't hear anyone in recent days arguing over who can come to Christ, I do hear plenty of people arguing over who can stay in him.

Let's go a little deeper. Read Romans 6. All of it. It's abundantly clear: believers are no longer slaves to sin but to righteousness. That means we have been sanctified—made righteous—completely. It does not say in Romans or any other place that we won't sin; it says that because of who we are in Christ, sin is not our master—even if we make it so.

To be sure, any sexual expression outside of a heterosexual monogamous marriage is sin. Grace isn't a license to sin. To claim grace as if it is only a get-out-of-jail-free card is a misuse of its unequaled power to free. It's like using a pressure washer to water the plants; it can do that, but it was designed to do abundantly more.

For anyone to point at one group of people with a certain set of proclivities and condemn them for those things while exonerating (or ignoring) another group with over proclivities is hypocritical and inconsistent. Can a believer persist in willful pride and still inherit the kingdom of God? Can a believer persist in willful alcoholism and still inherit the kingdom of God? Can a believer persist in willful gluttony and still inherit the kingdom of God? Can a believer persist in willful heterosexual pornography and still inherit the kingdom of God? If you aren't consistently and regularly calling all sin sinful, and calling all people (including yourself) to holy living, then how can you do so for those living homosexually? And, if you are unwilling to pronounce the same eternal sanctions on all willful sinning believers as you do on the gay and lesbian willful sinner, how can you justify that?


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Heather Graber

July 23, 2012  2:13pm

Thanks for this article, Alan! I too have been challenged lately to pursue personal holiness and to focus on being led by the Spirit in my conversations with others rather than offering my personal beliefs on this subject. We need to change the conversation from 'What do I believe?' to 'How does God want to use me?' Any discussion about sexuality promises to be messy and complicated, but this is part of our calling - to 'walk the middle' and embrace living in the tension of grace and truth. Which brings us back to relying on the Spirit to guide us as we speak love and challenge into others' lives.

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James Cowles

July 21, 2012  4:38pm

I know of several lesbian people who are Christians and who have already "examin[ed] God's truth" and concluded that, as long as they are faithful to their partner / spouse and treat him / her with love, compassion, and justice -- IOW same criteria as a heterosexual relationship -- that their relationship is not sinful. Many other Christians may disagree with that assessment, as is their right. But I am at pains to assert that, contrary to the impression some Christians often go out of their way to create, there is no unanimity on this issue within the Christian community. E.g., many Episcopal churches, some Presbyterian, and some United Methodist communities accept gay / lesbian people, even couples, because their interpretation of the Bible permits it. It's an open question. Perhaps not an open question to all, but to enough that the Church does not speak with a single voice on the issue, despite the bad habit many places of confusing honest disagreement with apostasy. JRC

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Suzy Gyles

July 21, 2012  3:38pm

I am interested in what others would say to this (we are discussing this at my church): If I were a believing homosexual person, and involved in the lifestyle (say living with a person of the same sex and having a sexual relationship with that person), will I be accepted in the kingdom of God? If I awake every morning and confess my sins, with no intention of leaving the lifestyle - am I a hypocrite? Will I receive eternal life with God? (Hypothetical) I truly am trying to understand. I love every man/woman as God's creation. I offer grace the best I can through the power of the Holy Spirit to every person I meet. I am a sinner, and confess those sins every day. I strive to walk and live in holiness and righteousness, yet I am weak and fallen and only do this in the power of the Holy Spirit within me. How does this above scenario play out? I want to plead with those living the gay lifestyle to examine God's truth but need an answer to this question. Please help!!

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