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Rachel Getting Married
| posted 10/03/2008




Rachel Getting Married

Our rating: 3 Stars - Good

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MPAA rating: R
(for language and brief sexuality)

Genre: Drama

Theater release:
October 03, 2008
by Sony Pictures Classics

Directed by: Jonathan Demme

Runtime: 1 hour 54 minutes

Cast: Anne Hathaway (Kym), Rosemarie DeWitt (Rachel), Tunde Adebimpe (Sidney), Mather Zickel (Kieran), Bill Irwin (Paul), Debra Winger (Abby)

Related: Talk About It/Family Corner


Some of the best movies involve tenuous family situations at weddings and other celebratory events: Think of The Godfather, this year's forthcoming Unconte de Noel (A Christmas Tale), or if you're into dysfunction, Margot at the Wedding. There is something about mutually shared histories, families brought together under one roof, and a little bit of wine to really bring out the best and the worst in people—and to provoke the stories that make for interesting cinema. Rachel Getting Married is one of the more joyful additions to this canon, and one that deeply resonates in the soul.

It's a simple story: Kym (Anne Hathaway), the black sheep of the family, is released from another nine-month stint in rehab, just in time for her sister Rachel's (Rosemary DeWitt) wedding to Sidney (Tunde Adebimpe). Both families and their friends have gathered to celebrate the nuptials. While preparing for the celebration, Kym, Rachel, and the family are forced to confront a painful part of their family history, and all the past hurts and anger surface. When Kym goes missing, the family panics, but forgiveness and healing stems from the deepest hurts and joys they share.

Anne Hathaway as Kym
Anne Hathaway as Kym

Rachel Getting Married throbs with life from title to credits, employing perhaps the most authentic characters you'll see on screen this year. You'll fall in and out of love with them repeatedly in all their joy, sarcasm, self-righteousness, humor, narcissism, and tenderness. Nobody here is a saint, and there is no villain; even Kym, who could have easily been a sardonic addict in reluctant recovery, is still a sardonic addict, but one in doggedly determined pursuit of recovery—attending AA meetings and working hard to follow the program's steps—with a keen need to somehow atone for her past wrongdoings. Rachel has her own set of arrogancies, and some of these tense family discussions are physically uncomfortable to watch.

Director Jonathan Demme (The Silence of the Lambs, Philadelphia, The Manchurian Candidate) allows his actors plenty of space to develop relationships with one another and work as naturally as possible on set by spending a long time in the moment. For instance, a lengthy wedding rehearsal scene that you would swear is all improvised was shot in two 45-minute takes. The result is a raw emotion that feels so authentic, it could almost be a home movie or documentary, with an unsteady hand-held style and many jaggedly-cut montages. But the wedding itself is pure joy for the audience—the music, the dancing, the color, love, and light are palpable. It's like being at the most lovely, intimate wedding you've experienced, the kind that truly draws a community together.

Rachel (Rosemarie DeWitt) and Kym
Rachel (Rosemarie DeWitt) and Kym

Hathaway's turn in this film has provoked a flurry of Oscar buzz, and it's not unmerited; this is a substantial departure from her mostly wholesome, relatively fluffy good-girl roles in movies like The Princess Diaries and The Devil Wears Prada. Here, as a recovering addict with a temper and a guilty conscience, she alternately flames, annoys, and charms, like a streak of slightly untamable lightning. But Hathaway is only a small part of what makes this such an enjoyable movie experience. One gets the sense that there are no extras in this world—the cast is made up of not just actors, but musicians, poets, comedians, and dancers. It seems like Demme got a bunch of his friends together for a party, then decided to let others in on the fun.

The screenwriter, Jenny Lumet (daughter of veteran director Sidney Lumet), refreshingly refuses to make an issue of circumstances that many lesser writers would have felt bound to have the characters talk about. Rachel is a white girl from Connecticut; Sidney is black and lives in Hawaii; their family and friends fill out the rest of the cultural gamut. The bride and her bridesmaids wear saris, and their wedding reception includes traditional American-style folk music, Hawaiian belly dancing, hip hop, slow jazz, and pretty much anything you can think of.




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Felicia   Posted: September 17, 2009 11:35 PM
Not rated
We also rented this movie because of the rating here. It was one of longest painful movies we have seen in a long time. We all thought we were attending that boring wedding that you HAVE to go to and CANT leave. The concept was good... execution was not near what it could have been. Not worth the time.

Ed   Posted: June 01, 2009 10:28 AM
Trashy? A little less fun than I think it was portrayed in the review perhaps, but trashy? Because there were swear words and a sex scene? That is why it was rated R. If you cannot look past a little grit, you should stick with PG-13. This movie was atypical, did not resolve neatly like lesser films on similar topics, and seemed a little over-long to me, but it was affecting and powerful, and perhaps most importantly, completely authentic. I felt like I was one of their family. Heartbreaking.

Aaron   Posted: May 17, 2009 2:20 PM
Eve, You must not be too familiar with CT's reviewing system. CT reviews movies based off of characters, plots, story lines, and a myriad of other things that make a solid movie solid. CT spurs it's readers on to look past the two 'sins' in a movie that so many believers look for - sex and language and find the moral and purpose of each movie. CT has strengthened my movie watching skills by encouraging me to look for deeper truths within the movies we view.

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