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The Manti Te'o Hoax, from the Perspective of a Football Fanatic's Wife
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The Manti Te'o Hoax, from the Perspective of a Football Fanatic's Wife


Jan 17 2013
After falling for it, I realized deception is nothing new.

As the wife of a recent cancer survivor, I take even greater issue with people using cancer as a way to gain public sympathy or money. But as news of the Manti Te'o scandal broke I also couldn't help but recognize that my feelings of disappointment and frustration were also rooted in a lie I'd started to tell myself.

I want to believe all of this public deception is something new, something we can blame on the glorification of public athletes or the rise of social media sites. When I've talked to others about these cases I tend to say, "Can you believe this is what our world is coming to?!" But in reality, deception is nothing new. It is a part of human history since Adam and Eve's encounter with the serpent in the Garden of Eden.

"You will not surely die," the serpent said to the woman."For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil" (Gen. 3:4-5). As we know, Eve's pride wins out over God's instructions to not eat from the tree and the rest is, to state the obvious, the beginning of our sinful nature.

I hope and believe I won't ever try to pull off a lie as great as some of those we're seeing in recent news, but not a day goes by that I don't struggle with my own pride. If anything, Manti Te'o's story is a reminder of my own sins and the need for Christ's ultimate redemption.

Lesley Sebek Miller, a Westmont College graduate, lives in Sacramento, California. She is a member of the Redbud Writers Guild, and her work has appeared in Relevant Magazine. She is a former social media director and has a particular fondness for discussing the intricacies of social etiquette in online communities. She blogs at http://barefooton45th.com.

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CHAPLAIN BROWN

January 18, 2013  5:18pm

Friends we truly trust can probably deceive us any time they really want to. R. Glenn Brown

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Tim Fall

January 17, 2013  5:58pm

Good job getting us thinking about falsehoods and the human condition, Lesley. It's amazing what some people will believe. Then it happens to me and I'm even more amazed that I was duped too. But the real problem is when I am the one doing the duping. I hide things and fight the temptation to paint myself in a better light than I really am all the time. God knows the real me though and loves me enough to have died for me anyway. Cheers, Tim (timfall.wordpress.com)

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JANET W

January 17, 2013  1:57pm

I happen to believe Manti Te'o. Nothing in the article goes anywhere close to proving that the football was anything other than duped. I feel sorry for this young man who now is under the spotlight for simply being foolish.

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