Above all else, learn to yield. So much of the advice offered by experts in the field of ministry health and wellness fails to clear the first fence with active pastors engaged in active, vibrant ministries. The standard advice is to encourage active, vibrant, busy people to go against their nature by doing one of two things: 1) to either “slow down” or “stop” doing what they’re probably doing quite well; and/or 2) try to “gain control” of their lives by becoming more orderly or self-determinant.
Several problems exist with this approach to rest, wellness, and spiritual vibrancy. First and foremost, different people recharge their batteries in different ways. While lounging in a hammock with a well-worn copy of Augustine’s City of God is refreshing solitude for one pastor, it may feel like the “time-out corner” for someone else. A church leader who is wired for speed and adventure may instead find a vigorous hike up a mountainside to be more spiritually vibrant and restful.
Second, the essence of the Bible’s storyline is not human self-mastery, but rather learning the discipline of yielding one’s life to God’s greater purposes. As the familiar saying goes, “The world already has a Savior and you’re not Him!” Acknowledging our own finiteness and imperfection allows us to rest in God’s provision, not only for us, but also those entrusted to our care. Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matt. 11:28). The focus is on receiving Jesus’ gift of rest, rather than straining to create my own. Trying to balance my life, and therefore control my life, does not bring rest, ease of pace, or peace. It actually makes me more anxious.
Throughout his writing, Eugene Peterson uses the image of finding a rhythm, rather than trying to achieve balance or control. This is a more fluid approach. To find your personal rhythm you must see how work, rest, play, and prayer belong together. Each activity feeds and influences the other. Perhaps the key to maintaining a vibrant spiritual life is to discover the answer to a slightly different question: How can I work, rest, play, and pray in a life-giving, rather than soul-depleting, manner? I believe your unique answer to this question will determine your ability to maintain your spiritual vibrancy, all by God’s grace.
