Theology

Who Are the Ismaili Muslims?

The history of this small Shiite sect includes assassinations, persecution, and periods of adherence to pluralism.

A exhibition from the collection of the Aga Khan Trust for Culture in Berlin, Germany, showing traditional Islamic art.

A exhibition from the collection of the Aga Khan Trust for Culture in Berlin, Germany, showing traditional Islamic art.

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This is the second of a two-part series on Ismailism, a branch of Shiite Islam. To read part 1, click here.

An 11-acre Ismaili Muslim religious center is coming to Texas.

Part one of this two-part series described how the small sect of Shiite Islam will soon open the huge prayer hall and social center in Houston. Ismaili leaders emphasize an adherence to pluralism and interfaith dialogue, and this article will discuss how this assertion fits—or clashes—with Ismaili history.

For Ismailis today, who number between 12 and 15 million, pluralism is more than a commitment—it is near dogma. That is due to the center’s subsect, Nizari Ismailism, and its distinguishing feature: the living imam. Most Shiite Muslims name the leader of the Islamic community an imam, but only the Nizari sect claims he is alive and actively present in the world today.

And the imam’s legitimacy originates in his descend from Muhammad.

Islam’s prophet married and had several children, but only his daughter Fatimah survived to adulthood. She married Ali, Muhammad’s nephew and adopted son, and they had two daughters and three sons, one of whom likely died in infancy. All Muslims hold these descendants in high regard, and the current king of Jordan is one of thousands who trace their lineage back to Muhammad.

Yet the branches of Islam divided over who they saw as Muhammad’s true heir. Shiites believe that prior to his death, Muhammad designated Ali as his political and spiritual successor, so they call him “imam.” They also elevate Ali, Fatimah, and their sons Hasan and Hussein as Ahl al-Bayt, “the family of [Muhammad’s] household,” and believe these five received divine knowledge and infallibility. Only Muhammad holds the title of prophet, but his grandsons, in turn, became the second and third imams.

Sunni Muslims reject the claim of special favor, but honor Ali as the fourth community-chosen caliph, the highest Islamic political office. They dismiss the idea that an imam or any other human can inherit Muhammad’s aura of divine guidance.

Sunnis won the ensuing civil war in Islam and then set up a hereditary caliphate. Shiites rallied around Ahl al-Bayt, with some rebelling against the caliph’s authority and others adopting a quiet posture of perseverance. The majority, known as Twelvers, trace a line of 12 imams who from Hussein are designated directly from father to son. Twelvers are prominent in Iran, Iraq, Lebanon, and Azerbaijan.

Ismailis, found primarily in Central Asia, East Africa, and the Indian subcontinent, separated over a disputed succession. In AD 765, the Shiite community faced a crisis when Jafar al-Sadiq, the sixth imam, died at home, allegedly poisoned by the Sunni caliph who had previously detained him. Many of his followers believed he had designated his oldest son, Ismail, as the next imam—who died two years earlier than his father.

Sadiq’s other sons claimed Shiite leadership, with Twelvers following Musa al-Kazim as the seventh imam. But the crisis was more than just political—it was theological.

If an imam is infallible, how could he wrongly designate his successor? A dissenting party no longer in existence concluded that Ismail must still be alive and in hiding. Others held that Ismail’s son Muhammad should next inherit leadership, consistent with the father-to-son pattern. Most Ismailis today follow this line, and their head, known as Aga Khan V, is the 50th imam in the succession.

A century later, a different theological crisis hit the Twelver community. In AD 874, the eleventh imam died without an obvious heir. Consensus emerged that he did have a son who went into “occultation,” concealed from public view. Yet he never reappeared, and Twelvers judged that this Hidden Imam, miraculously preserved, will return to rule at the end of the age. Until then, fallible Shiite scholars lead the community.

In contrast, Ismailis offered Muslims a living imam, and their popularity surged as Twelvers fell into confusion over issues of leadership. As the inheritor of the leadership of Muhammad, Ali, and all proceeding figures in his line, the current Aga Khan—living today in Geneva, Switzerland—is believed by adherents to speak infallibly in spiritual matters and religious guidance. Similar to the pope in Catholicism, this infallibility does not carry over into his personal life or political choices. But when the time approaches, he will authoritatively designate his successor.

Today, the Aga Khan’s guidance is decidedly in favor of pluralism. But as with many religious traditions, Ismaili history is checkered. As a minority religious group, at times Ismailis have felt compelled to hide their faith. At other times they fought fiercely for political power. And in the 9th century their numeric growth helped establish a caliphate of their own.

During their two-century rule from Cairo, the Ismaili Fatimid empire treated Coptic Christians relatively well, governing a diverse population that included a Sunni majority. While Ismailis taught their faith and established the renowned Al-Azhar University as an Ismaili center, they did not impose their doctrines on the population.

One imam, however, reversed this toleration. Al-Hakim required Jews and Christians to wear distinctive clothing, banned the celebration of Easter, and destroyed several churches. His policies appeared to follow political convenience, as he later lessened the persecution and turned against his fellow Shiite rivals.

These rivalries continued. When a later Fatimid imam died in AD 1094, his powerful adviser favored the younger son al-Mustali over firstborn Nizar. The majority branch of Ismailis today believe Nizar was the designated imam, yet he was killed in his subsequent revolt. A minority, primarily in India, believes a descendent of al-Mustali, hidden from public view, remains the rightful Muslim ruler.

The Mustali Ismailis maintained their rule over Fatimid Cairo and expelled from Egypt a Nizari missionary who continued spreading the faith. Hasan Sabbah eventually returned to his native Iran and secured control of a mountain fortress, from which he established another political entity and the Order of Assassins, which killed dozens of high-profile political leaders. Legends carried to Europe by returning crusaders spoke of an elite unit of drug-crazed yet professional hitmen, trained in majestic gardens and surrounded by harems of beautiful women.

Explorer Marco Polo told stories of the medieval Hashishin. The English word assassin is derived from the Arabic word for the narcotic hashish, but modern scholarship refutes the legitimacy of this connection, as there is no evidence of drug use by the order.

History does chronicle the assassins’ murder of two Muslim caliphs and the crusader king designate of Jerusalem, alongside numerous other Islamic and Christian leaders. Ismaili sources cast doubt on their responsibility for some of these assassinations, describing instead a policy of self-defense from within scattered mountain fortresses.

For centuries, Ismailis say, Sunni authorities harshly persecuted them. They skinned Ismaili leaders alive, threw them into bonfires, and crucified them on city walls. And when the Mongols ransacked Muslim territories in the 13th century, some estimates place Ismaili deaths at more than 100,000. A Sunni historian said “no trace was left” of their community.

Ismailis ensured their survival through a policy of taqiyya—an Arabic word meaning “dissimulation,” the hiding of one’s true beliefs under duress. Early leaders pretended to be merchants as they directed a missionary campaign in Sunni-led Syria. Another leader escaped the Mongols by disguising himself as an embroiderer. Later, Ismaili adherents posed as Sunnis, members of other Shiite sects, or even Hindus to blend in locally.

Some Christians cite taqiyya as a reason not to trust Muslims, calling it permission to lie. Other Christians dismiss this claim as false, as do Shiite leaders. But some Ismailis have used deception as a tactic. The founder of their ministate in northern Iran first gained access to the fortress by pretending to be a schoolteacher and then converting the garrison forces. During the Crusades some Ismailis switched sides between Christian lords and Sunni caliphs. And to kill one leading Sunni adviser, an assassin presented himself as a Muslim mystic.

While fleeing Mongol persecution, one Ismaili imam, Shams al-Din Muhammad, reportedly said that taqiyya is “my religion and the religion of my ancestors.” The early imams relied on the practice, Shiites say, to protect the line of the prophet from one generation to the next against Sunni authorities who allegedly poisoned Shiite leaders. Other imams outwardly cooperated with the caliphs while hiding their inner conviction of leadership, hoping to secure greater freedom for their community. Because Shiites saw the imam’s example as infallible, they took up the practice of taqiyya as a community resource.

Ismailis only reemerged as a distinct community in the 19th century when the Shiite Qajar state in Iran appointed the first Aga Khan as a regional governor. After a failed rebellion, he fled to Afghanistan, befriended the British, and settled in India. There the Ismaili imam won a legal case to be the exclusive religious representative of the wealthy Khoja merchant community. Under colonial rule the Aga Khan became a cofounder of the All-India Muslim League and gained global prominence as an Islamic spokesman.

Modern Aga Khans went on to call for inter-Muslim unity worldwide. This is a model for today, Ismailis say, for much blood has been shed between the sects, then and now. Aga Khans also pursued international consensus, and Muhammad Shah, the third in the modern Ismaili line of leadership, became president of the post–World War I League of Nations.

“The tribulations of one people are the tribulations of all,” stated Aga Khan III to the assembly in 1937. “This is no empty ideal. It is a veritable compass to guide aright the efforts of statesmen in every country and of all men of good will who, desiring the good of their own people, desire the good of the whole world.”

At his accession speech as Aga Khan V last February, Prince Rahim, the 50th Nizari Ismaili imam extended a similar vision of tolerance for all humanity. He committed to continuing the work of the Aga Khan Development Network, whose interfaith work was described in part one of this series. As his worldwide community pledged their allegiance to his leadership, he urged them to be loyal and active citizens of the countries in which they live.

Correction: An earlier version of the story misstated the city where Aga Khan V lives and the name of the Aga Khan Development Network.

Church Life

A Pastor Stood Up to Persecution in India. Christianity Spread.

“It is very scary out there. … But the Holy Spirit reminds [me] that ‘for when I am weak, then I am strong.’”

Women working in a paddy field in the Malkangiri tribal district of India.

Women working in a paddy field in the Malkangiri tribal district of India.

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In Malkangiri district of Odisha state in eastern India, tribal Christian farmers gathered on an overcast Saturday in June for an annual prayer gathering for the upcoming sowing season. The farmers placed their earthen pots filled with seeds by the pulpit, then knelt as the pastors blessed the seeds.

Suddenly, a mob of 200 Hindu fundamentalists attacked. Pictures from the site on June 21 show broken pots and pools of blood that turned a place of blessing and worship into a scene of horror.

When church members held a peace rally on the street outside the district administration office, condemning the attack, they became the focus of the police’s attention, said Bipul Prasad, the pastor who had planted the church.

While there is no evidence that police registered a case against the perpetrators, “we are now being framed with a false case,” Prasad said with quiet resignation.

Prasad, 49, is accustomed to this type of treatment for his faith. For the past two decades, Prasad has faced beatings, financial loss, and police surveillance for his ministry to reach his own Koya tribe with the gospel. Christianity Today agreed not to use Prasad’s real name or any of his identifiable information, as he could face increased attacks from Hindu nationalist groups.

Yet persecution hasn’t stopped the gospel from spreading in the rugged and densely forested Malkangiri district. Today, Prasad and a team of 25 disciples oversee the 72 churches he has planted in Malkangiri while continuing to share the Good News of the “God of love” to the Koya tribal community, he said. Besides being a pastor, Prasad is also an activist who uses his experience of suffering to counsel Christian victims of persecution, raise cases with police, and pursue legal remedies.

“From a human point of view, it is very scary out there, and I won’t be able to step out of my home. But the Holy Spirit reminds [me] that ‘for when I am weak, then I am strong,’” he said, quoting 2 Corinthians 12:10.

With the rise of the Hindu nationalist Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) to national power in 2014, the tribal heartlands of Odisha and Chhattisgarh have become battlegrounds between tribal Christians and Hindu nationalists, according to A. C. Michael, the national coordinator of the United Christian Forum (UCF).

In Odisha, the UCF documented 14 incidents of physical assault, damage to property, restrictions on religious assembly, intimidation, and harassment in 2024, up from single digits a decade ago. The neighboring state of Chhattisgarh reported 165 incidents in 2024, up from 29 incidents in 2014. UCF added a caveat that its data is based solely on self-reporting by the victims. The real figures could be much higher, as most incidents go unreported due to fear of retribution.

Prasad’s first brush with persecution came in 2007. Villagers in the remote hamlet of Koikonda warned the young pastor not to visit and spread the “foreign religion,” he said. Yet Prasad still quietly went to pray with two new converts. About 20 minutes later, around 200 people mobbed the house they were in, cursing him.

The two new converts escaped, but the armed men attacked Prasad with sticks and stones until he fell unconscious. The next thing he remembers is waking up in the hospital, regaining consciousness from a coma after six days. He had injuries on his head, chest, abdomen, and legs. It took months to recover.

Sensing trouble in Odisha, Prasad’s mission organization sent him to minister in Jagdalpur and Bilaspur in the neighboring Chhattisgarh state in 2008. Yet his heart longed for his home of Malkangiri. For a year, he preached the gospel in Chhattisgarh, all the while praying for clarity about God’s plan for his life and ministry.

During one of his night prayers, he said he heard Jesus tell him, “What about Malkangiri?”

So after leading a New Year service in Bilaspur in January 2009, he resigned from the missionary organization and headed back to Malkangiri. He moved to the Koya village of Gongola.

Many of Prasad’s fellow ministers questioned his decision to move back to Odisha, where Christians faced great opposition. Hindu fundamentalist groups prowled tribal areas, attacking Christian converts. Fear still gripped Christians in the state after mobs burned and killed Australian missionary Graham Staines and his two sons in 1999.

Within months after Prasad returned, Odisha witnessed the horrific Kandhamal violence, where Hindu extremists killed more than 100 Christians and razed 6,500 homes, 400 churches, and Christian institutions.

Yet Prasad hoped for a revival, motivated by his call to return to Malkangiri. He quietly went to tribal hamlets to tell locals about the Good News of Jesus. He held small prayer gatherings. He avoided using loudspeakers like other evangelists so he wouldn’t draw attention to himself. Collaborating with fellow pastors in the villages, he nurtured converts in their newfound spiritual journeys.

Still, he had frequent run-ins with Hindu fanatics who opposed him for allegedly “forcibly converting people to a foreign religion,” he said.

In 2011, Prasad started a school with 20 tribal children on a piece of land donated by one of the new converts. He hired young adults from Christian families as teachers and offered free education to children from poor families.

The school drew support from locals of all religions. Villagers petitioned local authorities to support and expand the school’s work. In 2015, the local administration allotted a one-acre plot outside the village to build a proper building, which went on to provide education to 250 tribal children from 30 nearby villages. It was the only English-language school within a 100-kilometer (62-mile) radius, Prasad said.

With the school garnering popular support locally, the Hindu extremist organization Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh (RSS) began to spread misinformation. It accused the school’s management of distributing Bibles and conducting Christian prayers every day with an intention to convert the children. Yet Prasad noted that the school never pressured the students to convert or to join in prayers.

“It was a conspiracy by the RSS, as one of its leaders opened a school locally in 2016,” Prasad said. “The intention behind the propaganda was to take away children from my school.”

In June 2019, the local administration sent a notice to Prasad, accusing him of illegally operating the school on government land. Despite relevant paperwork to reject the claim and protests by students and parents, the government razed the school to the ground. The destruction left 250 children without a school, and it did even more damage: Prasad, his family, and 12 orphans had lived on the campus. They had to find a new home.

“It felt as if life had been snuffed out of me as the buildings came crashing down,” Prasad said. “Hundreds of contributions, years of strenuous efforts, and close to Rs 70 lakh [about $80,000 USD] were destroyed in a matter of minutes.”

Yet paradoxically, the destruction of the school led more locals to Christ. As villagers saw Prasad pray for the attackers, they noticed a difference between his message of peace and the RSS’s message of hatred. Prasad said many locals believed in Jesus as a result. “The Lord works in mysterious ways,” he said.

To date, Prasad said, he has baptized 700 people. His ministry shepherds nearly 3,500 tribal Christians across 72 churches. Most churches meet in thatched-roof homes, backyards, or mats spread out under trees in the fields.

Due to his own experiences facing persecution from Hindu nationalists, Prasad advocates for the rights of tribal Christians, organizing peaceful protests, raising issues with local authorities, and participating in Malkangiri’s Christian forums to push for justice and protection. He faces increasing challenges: The little legal, financial, and material aid he receives from Christian organizations outside Malkangiri is also becoming hard to come by due to rising scrutiny of Christian relief work.

Yet Prasad continues to take the gospel to the remotest corners of Malkangiri, whether by worn-out cars or by motorbikes or by foot. He looks up to 19th-century Africa missionary David Livingstone as he clings to Philippians 1:21, which says, “For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.”

News

Trump’s Refugee Policy ‘Is Slamming the Door on Persecuted Christians’

Faith organizations hope the Trump administration will reverse course after the announcement of a historically low refugee ceiling.

Afghan refugee children at a refugee camp

Afghan refugee children at a refugee camp

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Even when politics becomes a hot-button topic at Scott Venable’s nondenominational church outside Dallas, there’s one issue that brings members together: refugees.

The Northwood Church pastor recalls two volunteers from his church, one a Black Democrat and the other a white Republican, joining forces to heft a couch up a flight of stairs for a newly resettled family. “They both vote opposite each other, but there they were,” he said, “serving and loving.”

The Keller, Texas, congregation has a long history of supporting refugees, with church members signing up to join a Good Neighbor Team, a program that welcomes new arrivals, raises money for resettlement, and recruits volunteers to help. 

But fewer Christians and fellow persecuted minorities will be able to find welcome from churches like Northwood with the Trump administration calling the shots. Next year, the White House plans to admit the fewest refugees since the passage of the Refugee Act of 1980. The reduced ceiling of 7,500 admittances lands at half the previous record low of 15,000 (proposed by the first Trump administration before President Donald Trump left office and temporarily continued by the Biden administration). 

The low figure also came with a shift in focus away from the stated goal of the law, to admit those around the world suffering persecution, and instead prioritizes white Afrikaners and others facing discrimination. 

The policy came as a disappointment to Christians involved in refugee resettlement, whose churches have taken in families from the Middle East, Africa, and Venezuela. 

“I think of those who are our brothers and sisters in Christ who are escaping some horrific situations,” Venable said. “I don’t pretend to understand the math and the nuance of how many refugees to let in. … I just know this is a historically low number, and it is troubling as a follower of Jesus.”

The latest move follows the administration’s efforts to slash the refugee admissions program. At every opportunity, Trump has reduced the number of refugees admitted, going from 50,000 in his first term to now less than 10,000. As a comparison, the Biden administration set the ceiling at 125,000 last year. Trump’s numbers were also much lower than those of other Republican presidents. (The ceiling caps how many refugees can come, but the actual number of admitted refugees varies year to year and is usually lower than the cap.)

The net effect has been that, according to an analysis by the Cato Institute, the entry of persecuted Christian refugees fell by 78 percent in his first term.

World Relief president and CEO Myal Greene called the announcement of the new cap “a heartbreaking day.”

“At a time when there are more refugees globally than ever in recorded history, when Christians and others face horrific persecution on account of their faith, the U.S. will do less than ever to offer refuge,” he said.

During Trump’s first term, his officials occasionally paid homage to persecuted Christians and expressed a desire to help them. In 2017, Trump was the first president to say he would prioritize persecuted Christians in the annual ceiling. 

In 2019, at the United Nations, he also said, “No matter the case, America will always be a voice for victims of religious persecution everywhere. No matter where you go, you have a place in the United States of America.”

Trump’s evangelical supporters had urged him to continue in that vein: In May, Christian organizations including the Family Research Council, Focus on the Family, Open Doors US, and the National Association of Evangelicals sent a letter in support of the refugee program as a means of upholding religious freedom. The refugee program has enjoyed bipartisan support, and around 72 percent of Americans supported refugee resettlement as an important policy as of 2022.

Now, one of the historic means of relief for persecuted people around the world is dwindling at a time when 380 million Christians live in places with high persecution or discrimination.

An Anglican family who fled their home in North Africa due to religious persecution found a spiritual home at Church of the Incarnation in Appleton, Wisconsin, another Good Neighbor Team partner with World Relief. 

“Their kids are in our children’s ministry and our youth group, and we worship together,” pastor Chad Magnuson told CT. “I get that we can’t do that for everyone, but we can do it for a lot more.”

Churchgoers land on both sides of the political aisle, Magnuson said, but their faith has led them to have some things in common: They “have a heart, just as God does, for the poor, the refugee, the immigrant.”

So far in Trump’s second term, the refugee program has been on far shakier ground. On his first day in office, he signed an executive order suspending the United States Refugee Admissions Program. That froze the pipeline to admit refugees into the US, even those who were already vetted and had churches waiting to take them in.

The only exceptions were white South Africans, also known as Afrikaners, whom he called “victims of unjust racial discrimination.” The South African government has denied claims that Afrikaners, primarily descendents from Europe and the Netherlands, are particular targets in the country’s crime problem.

Several hundred Afrikaners have been admitted into the US under a streamlined refugee process since earlier this year. The New York Times reported that some in the administration have recommended canceling the applications of other refugees.

Afrikaners are now the primary recipients of the 7,500 spots, according to Trump’s order. No other group was mentioned.

The administration also said that “other victims of illegal or unjust discrimination in their respective homelands” could be considered refugees going forward. The notice gave no specifics of what would meet the definition of discrimination.

“This isn’t simply a policy shift. It’s a transformation in the character of America’s long-standing, bipartisan refugee program,” said Timothy Young, director of public relations with Global Refuge. “For the first time, the system has been structured to privilege one group over all others, departing from the principle that protection should be based on persecution, not politics.”

“A sole focus on Afrikaners going forward would effectively shut the door for those fleeing religious persecution,” World Relief noted in a statement.

Some organizations, including the Episcopal Church and a faith-based refugee resettlement group connected to the US Conference of Catholic Bishops, have opted out of resettling refugees as the refugee program has faced turmoil and its focus has changed.

Other groups, including Global Refuge (formerly Lutheran Immigration and Refugee Service), plan to still work as federal resettlers even as they mourn the changes to the program. 

“We’re hearing from Afghan women’s rights activists, Venezuelan political dissidents, Congolese families, persecuted Christians, and other religious minorities, all of whom now fear there is no room left for them in a system they trusted,” said Krish O’Mara Vignarajah, president and CEO of Global Refuge. “What refugee families need most is a pathway to protection that is consistent, principled, and grounded in the promise that every life matters equally—not just the few who fit a favored profile.”

Refugee organizations hope Trump’s order isn’t the end of the story. The notice, which was published in the Federal Register on Friday, is the announcement of intent. The Refugee Act dictates that the president must consult with Congress before finalizing or implementing the new refugee target. According to congressional Democrats, no such consultation has yet taken place.

Reversing course would not be without precedent: In 2021, President Joe Biden initially said he would keep the refugee ceiling at 15,000. After significant outcry, including from Christians, he set the cap at 62,500.

The International Refugee Assistance Project, which has sued the administration over the suspension of the refugee program, in an emailed statement urged the Trump administration to “reassess and reconsider this decision, particularly in light of record levels of global displacement.”

Matthew Soerens, vice president of advocacy and policy at World Relief, also hopes something similar could happen now as a response to advocacy. Soerens said Christians have an opportunity now to push back on the move: “This is slamming the door on persecuted Christians, along with those persecuted for other reasons,” he said.

Venable is one of those Christians who are speaking up. He encourages other churches to ask Trump to adopt a higher refugee ceiling, as they did with Biden at the start of his term, and hopes Christians continue to step up and help. 

On Sunday, Soerens said, churches joined Christians around the world for the International Day of Prayer for the Persecuted Church. 

“We set aside time to remember our brothers and sisters in Christ who are persecuted for their faith,” he said. “It would be appropriate this particular Sunday to also be praying for our country to once again be a place that offers refuge and religious freedom to those who have been persecuted for their faith in other parts of the world.”

Church Life

Five Questions Pastors Should Ask Before Using AI

The philosophy of these tools is that the world is data and truth is probabilistic. Christians must proceed with biblically grounded care.

A yellow road sign and a figure pulling a wagon with a robot inside it.
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Five years ago, artist and designer Simon Weckert had an idea. He took a little red wagon, filled it with 99 smartphones all running Google Maps, and walked through the streets of Berlin. Wherever he went, the streets were empty, so much so that the scene was almost dystopian. His YouTube video shows clips of him walking down the center of vacant highways. It’s mostly silent, but for the wind and the wagon’s squeaky wheels.

The streets were empty for a reason: Wherever those 99 phones went, Google’s algorithm decided there was a serious traffic jam and sent drivers using the Maps app’s navigation tools on a different route. Vehicles were redirected to avoid Weckert’s wagon. He’d effectively hacked Google Maps.

Weckert’s point was that we’ve integrated this technology into our lives to such an extent that it holds unquestioned and even unnoticed power over us. It has become an unseen and unfelt hand guiding (or even dictating) our daily commutes. Without thinking about it—without questioning the reality or source of the algorithm’s power—we’ve offloaded certain God-given interpretive and cognitive faculties to a machine. In just two decades, Google Maps has grown to more than 2.2 billion active users, about one in four people on the planet who no longer routinely navigate for themselves.

Philosophers and anthropologists often describe our relationship with technology as co-constitutive. This means that technology makes us even as we make it, and understanding that reality is especially important now that we have entered the era of artificial intelligence. 

In just the three years since ChatGPT launched, it’s estimated that there are nearly 800 million monthly active users. Google Maps took around 7 years to reach that milestone, and ChatGPT is now just one of many popular AI chatbots. Moreover, unlike Maps, chatbots will respond to any type of query, from “Make me a budget” to “Write me a sermon” to “Who is God?”

It’s essential for Christians to deliberately and carefully consider how this technology will change (indeed, is already changing) our daily practices, our societies, and the church and to do so before it becomes as unconsidered as Google Maps. Christian leadership must critically evaluate AI before it becomes part of the scenery.

Much has already been written about Christians who have decided to use or shun new AI technologies like Gemini and ChatGPT. But to me, as a PhD researcher studying these AI models, much more needs to be said about what will happen if we do use it—as many (perhaps most) of us will to one degree or another. 

Technology changes us. But how, specifically, would this technology change us? And how will that change matter for Christian leaders, particularly pastors? On this front, I’ve found the thought of media theorist Neil Postman to be an indispensable source of wisdom. In 1998, as he looked to the horizon of the 21st century, Postman gave a talk in Denver entitled “Five Things We Need to Know About Technological Change,” and I’ll interpret these philosophical reflections for pastoral practice. Here are five things pastors should ask before using AI.

1. From Postman: “Technology giveth and technology taketh away.” For pastors: What essential spiritual or cognitive faculties might atrophy when we use these tools?

All technological change is a Faustian bargain, Postman observed. It comes with benefits and prices paid. 

In the dialogue Phaedrus, which Postman cites in the first chapter of his book Technopoly, Socrates argued that the technology of the written word damaged the human capacity for memory and that it would lead to “the show of wisdom without the reality,” an effect that may seem even more relevant in 2025 than it did in 370 B.C. The telegraph gave rise to the instant transmission of news, but it also decontextualized daily life. Social media draws us virtually near our friends and loved ones, affording constant and instantaneous communication, but it has also driven us apart.

In June 2025, MIT published a study that used brain scans to compare the cognitive functions of three groups of essay writers: those using their brain only to write, those who used search engines, and those who used chatbots. 

The results were dramatic: The “brain only” group showed the most intense and widespread neural engagement. Those using search engines landed in between, and the AI-assisted group demonstrated the weakest brain activity, largely offloading their cognitive work to the machine. In fact, these participants using AI struggled to recall their own work and reported the lowest sense of ownership.

Convenience comes at a price. And when this tech is used repeatedly, these cognitive effects become more pronounced. The researchers called this an accumulation of “cognitive debt”—a condition where reliance on external tools gradually replaces the cognitive processes required for genuine understanding. 

Pastors won’t be different from other writers on this point. If they outsource the rigorous work of exegesis and reflection, their God-given faculties of interpretation and creativity will atrophy. Efficiency is gained, yes. But formation is lost.

2. From Postman: “The advantages and disadvantages of new technologies are never distributed evenly among the population.” For pastors: Whose voices are amplified by this technology, and whose are silenced?

There are winners and losers in every technological shift as technology redistributes power. The printing press, for example, took power from rulers, priests, and scribes and gave it to the people, contributing to the rise of the Protestant Reformation and democratic governance. Other technologies, like the social media algorithms that concentrate informational power in a few tech companies, redistributed power in the opposite direction. Technology is not necessarily just nor its effects reliably equal.

This reality calls for dogged adherence to a distinctively biblical ethic of justice. For example, the laws of gleaning in Leviticus 19:9-10 mandated that harvesting be intentionally inefficient to provide for the poor. This is a meaningful counternarrative to AI’s relentless drive toward efficiency and optimization. We must ask who benefits in the AI era.

We should also ask what biases generative AI imbibes as it is trained on the vast corpus of the internet. When we use these tools, we risk adopting perspectives distilled from the AI models’ training data, which is not reliably truthful, let alone biblical. If we consume AI output uncritically, we may all too easily become “conformed to this world,” in Paul’s words, rather than being transformed through the renewal of our minds (Rom. 12:2). 

For pastors, this requires attention to how AI use can degrade our thinking by subtly amplifying some voices and silencing others.

3. From Postman: “Embedded in every technology is a powerful idea.” For pastors: What kind of person does this technology invite me to become?

Postman illustrates this third idea by expanding on an old adage: “To a man with a hammer, everything looks like a nail. … To a person with a TV camera, everything looks like an image. To a person with a computer, everything looks like data.” Each technology carries a philosophy that shapes our perception of reality long before we read the user manual.

Consider the mechanical clock, which shifted the perception of time from natural rhythm (Kairos) to precise, measurable units (Chronos). This embedded a bias in our culture toward efficiency and the commodification of time, altering professional and even spiritual life.

AI evangelists likewise tout incredible “productivity gains.” But that is merely the technology’s utility, not its embedded philosophy. The philosophy of these tools is that the world is essentially data, and truth is probabilistic and statistical. For the chatbot, the “right” answer to any question is determined not by some objective standard of truth but by what word is most likely to come next in other documents on related topics on the internet.

We are shaped by what we trust. The psalmist observes this regarding idols: “Those who make them become like them; so do all who trust in them” (115:8). Our tools too are not neutral. 

If we rely excessively on AI—a technology biased toward efficiency and derivative summarization of existing data—we risk becoming derivative ourselves. Pastors must ask how these tools are transforming their worldviews and their souls. Does this emerging perspective align with biblical principles?

4. From Postman: “Technological change is not additive; it is ecological.” For pastors: What kind of church must we become to minister faithfully in the world made by AI?

Like it or not, new technology means a new world. “In the year 1500, after the printing press was invented, you did not have old Europe plus the printing press,” Postman illustrates. “You had a different Europe.” The Roman Road system didn’t just add easier travel. It created an ecosystem that made possible the rapid spread of the Gospel—as well as the efficient persecution of the church. It made a different world.

A major new technology doesn’t just add something, then. It changes everything, like yeast working its way through a batch of dough (Matt. 13:33). And it bears repeating that the emerging and ever-improving AI tools we are seeing are already changing the world around us. We can’t hide from this shift; we must understand its profound impact and act with wisdom and discernment, steering its use.

I’ve begun consulting with pastors and church leaders on how to understand AI technology and be good stewards of it. Most of the pastors I’ve spoken with have not written an AI policy for their churches, spoken with their congregations about AI, or even considered doing so. How are we to be good stewards if we don’t seek to understand the agents of our world’s change? 

Ezekiel was called to be a watchman for the house of Israel (Ezekiel 33). Watchmen must understand the nature of an approaching threat or opportunity, and they are held responsible for making the threat known. It’s imperative that pastors understand this shift and actively shepherd their congregations through it and imperative that they speak prophetically into the new world AI is creating.

5. From Postman: New technology “tends to become mythic.” For pastors: How do we ensure this tool serves us and not the other way around?

When a technology becomes “mythic” in Postman’s sense, we cease to see it as a human artifact and begin to treat it as a force of nature, something inevitable. This is dangerous because we integrate that tech into ourselves and our daily lives without question, like the Google Maps users changing route to avoid Weckert’s wagon.

We’re rapidly approaching this point with AI. When we accept algorithmic verdicts as inevitable and treat the output of these AI models as oracular, forgetting it’s a statistical prediction rather than a thought, we engage in a form of idolatry.

Colossians 2:8 warns against being taken captive by “philosophy and empty deceit.” Understanding that every technology is embedded with its own philosophies and biases, this passage speaks meaningfully to our present age. Whether it’s a red line on Google Maps, an echo chamber on Instagram, or ChatGPT’s response to your last prompt, it’s easy to forget the nature of the technology and unintentionally elevate it to mythic status. 

Pastors—and all Christians—must actively demythologize AI, recognizing it as an imperfect (if incredible) artifact of human invention. We must proceed with our eyes open so that we may use this technology rather than be used by it.

In the deserted streets of Berlin, Weckert’s wagon performance was a prophetic gesture. He wasn’t riding the wagon but pulling it, deliberately, to make visible the invisible hand of the algorithm. He mastered this tool to show how it commonly masters us.

This is the pastor’s calling in the age of AI: not to follow the blinking red line of efficiency down whichever road it may lead, but to be the one pulling the wagon and to disciple fellow Christians to do the same.

Of course, this is not the first time that God’s people have had to negotiate a new technology. Five hundred years ago, Martin Luther saw the printing press, one of history’s most disruptive technologies, not as a threat but as an instrument of the divine. “Printing,” he exclaimed, “is God’s ultimate and greatest gift … through printing God wants the whole world, to the ends of the earth, to know the roots of true religion.” Luther understood that this new power could serve the idols of the age or be mastered for the cause of the gospel. He chose the latter.

The choice for pastors today is the same. Not so much whether or not to adopt a new tool, but in what direction to pull it. AI offers a world of efficient, probabilistic, and often derivative answers. The gospel offers a world of hard, paradoxical, yet life-giving truth. The one offers efficiency. The other, transformation.

The question, therefore, is whether we will let ourselves be guided by a machine offering, as Socrates warned, “the show of wisdom without the reality.” Or will we take the handle of this powerful, promising new tool and steer it with purpose? The challenge is to pull on a straight path that leads not to the predictions of an algorithm but to the scandalous grace of God.

A. G. Elrod is a lecturer at HZ University of Applied Sciences in the Netherlands and a PhD researcher at Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam. He is the founder of Nativ Consulting, which helps pastors and Christian organizations navigate use of AI.

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Everything Is Bigger in Texas, Including Its New Islamic Center

But it is run by one of the Muslim world’s smallest sects.

The Ismaili Center in Houston, Texas.

The Ismaili Center in Houston, Texas.

Christianity Today November 3, 2025
Image courtesy of Strata Visuals.

This is the first of a two-part series on Ismailism, a branch of Shiite Islam. The second story will provide background on the Shiite sect and examine whether Ismaili history supports religious tolerance.

Houston is a city known for going big. America’s ninth-largest city by land area, it is home to the world’s largest medical center, one of the nation’s biggest ports, and Texas’ second-tallest building.

Houston’s Christianity is also big, hosting some of the most mega of megachurches, including Joel Osteen’s Lakewood Church and the largest Episcopal church in the nation.

But it is also one of the US’s most religiously diverse cities. And another major religious space will soon join in: The Ismaili Center Houston.

Ismailis are a branch of Shiite Muslims who believe that religious authority continues through a line of imams—divinely guided descendants of Muhammad, the prophet of Islam. The center in Houston is owned by one of two main Ismaili branches, the Nizari Ismailis, who constitute around 1 percent of the global Muslim population.

For much of their history, Ismailis suffered persecution at the hands of other Muslim authorities. Today they wield substantial political and cultural influence, primarily through the Aga Khan Development Network (AKDN), administered by Aga Khan V, the current imam.

Set to open November 6, it will be the first Ismaili center in the US and the seventh worldwide—with others in London, Lisbon, Dubai, Dushanbe (in Tajikistan), Vancouver, and Toronto.

The Ismaili Center will certainly match Houston’s reputation for grandness—it will sit on an 11-acre site with nine gardens and a 150,000-square-foot building featuring a theater, banquet halls, a café, and place for prayer. It also aims to become a place for dialogue between Houston’s religious communities.

According to researchers from Rice University’s Kinder Institute for Urban Research, 38 percent of Houstonians identify as Protestant, 26 percent as Catholic, and 27 percent as “nones,” people with no religious affiliation. Houston also has notable Jewish, Buddhist, Hindu, Muslim, and Sikh populations.

Former Houston mayor Sylvester Turner, longtime member of the evangelical megachurch The Church Without Walls, which reports more than 20,000 members, stated that the center would be more than a “magnificent building” and would have an “impact on Houston, across Texas, and throughout the United States.”

Greater Houston has the largest Muslim population in Texas and the Southern United States, said Farah Lalani, a spokeswoman for the Ismaili Council for the Southwestern USA, including a sizeable Ismaili community. There are an estimated 35,000–40,000 Ismailis in this region, she added.

That community currently gathers at five jamatkhanas in the Houston area. Derived from the Persian word for a community gathering place, a jamatkhana is similar to a mosque but also incorporates social events and cultural activities—much as some larger churches do.

The center, however, is on another scale entirely. Omar Samji, a local lawyer and volunteer spokesman for the Ismaili Council, said that along with hosting theater productions, festivals, and art shows, the center is also part of a long-term vision for Ismailis to engage with and foster connections between faith communities. This, he said, is in line with what he found to be Houston’s reputation for being a welcoming city.

When Samji moved to Houston in 2012, he said one of the first things he noticed was a sense of connection between curious people of faith. As an Ismaili, he was heartened by Houstonians who knew what they believed and were not afraid to ask questions of others. Jewish, Christian, or Muslim, his neighbors were both inquisitive and respectful, he found.

That spirit pairs well with what Samji said is his faith’s emphasis on pluralism. Ismaili scholar Mohammed N. Miraly, in his book Faith and World: Contemporary Ismaili Social and Political Thought, described how their commitment to religious diversity originates in their interpretation of the Quran. Their previous leader, Aga Khan IV, said to be a direct descendent of Muhammad, founded the AKDN not only to improve the spiritual and material lives of his followers but also to demonstrate their ethical framework by benefiting the larger community.

Through the AKDN, Ismailis administer 1,000 development, education, and health care programs in more than 30 countries. Since 1982, this has included the Aga Khan Rural Support Programme for villages in the remote, mountainous, and ethnically diverse areas of India and northern Pakistan. Since 2000, the Aga Khan Music Programme has promoted peace through the preservation of musical heritage in Afghanistan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, and Tajikistan. And since 2017, the Global Centre for Pluralism in Ottawa has produced evidence-based research into policies that work toward successful and diverse societies.

“Faith is not only confined to prayers,” said Lalani, “but expressed in how we serve.”

In Houston, this service has included disaster relief, refugee resettlement, and blood drives alongside other people of faith. Ismailis have also regularly taken part in an interfaith Thanksgiving service which features songs, dances, and prayers from numerous religious communities. Samji said he hopes the center will help Ismailis scale up these efforts and build more connections through movie screenings, festivals, and events meant to foster dialogue between religious communities in Houston. 

Kim Mabry, a Methodist minister who facilitates engagement and collaboration between various faith communities at IM Houston—formerly Interfaith Ministries Houston—has seen firsthand how Ismailis have pitched in to help during the city’s frequent hurricanes and floods. Several Ismailis serve on the board of her 60-year-old organization, and she notes the potential of the center to expand future collaboration. Serving together helps transcend theological differences, she believes, and reminds people of different faiths about their shared humanity.

But some Christians have raised concerns. Houston’s conservative talk radio channel KTRH has broadcast the increased wariness many have toward Muslims. And its reporter B. D. Hobbs recently featured former president of Southern Evangelical Seminary Alex McFarland, who warned about the “growth of Islam in the West” and an alleged Muslim goal of replacing the US Constitution with sharia law.

Earlier this year in North Texas, the East Plano Islamic Center (EPIC), one of the largest mosques in the region, proposed a residential development of thousands of homes centered around a mosque and Islamic school. The plans drew backlash and political attention, including a law signed by Gov. Greg Abbott to challenge development’s legal framework on the grounds of discrimination. The US Department of Justice opened an investigation into potential illegal activities by the project’s organizers but ultimately closed it for lack of evidence.

Evangelical pastor Bob Roberts Jr., founder of NorthWood Church in Dallas–Fort Worth, who has spoken about his faith at EPIC, said the development was “never going to be a Muslim-only community.” But, he said, it was a potent reminder of how religious buildings can draw out extreme opinions in a time of polarization and social media half-truths.

Having worked with Ismailis over the years as part of his bridge building between Christians and Muslims, Roberts appreciates their commitment to development at the local and global levels. Christians should not fear their Muslim neighbors, he said. And they should be wary of taking cues from extreme voices online—about The Ismaili Center or any other Muslim sacred space. He encouraged evangelicals in Houston to visit Texas’ newest megaproject.

“There is no off-limits place for Christians,” Roberts said. “The gospel is bigger than any building.”

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Bible Reading Is Up Among Young Adults

Millennial readership has increased; zoomers read less than other generations but are on a steady upward trajectory.

Three phone screens showing the Bible.
Christianity Today November 3, 2025
Illustration by Elizabeth Kaye / Source Images: YouVersion, Unsplash

“Around two years ago, I started reading the Bible,” 20-year-old Hailey Gillman told her 200,000 TikTok followers in March. “I proclaimed that I was a Christian on my social media. A lot of people knew that I was a Christian and I loved Jesus, but … I actually never really opened my Bible.”

Gillman is not alone. According to the American Bible Society’s State of the Bible: USA 2025 study, Gen Zers spend less time in God’s Word than older generations do, with just 36 percent of the generation reporting Bible use at least a few times a year. At the same time, the reading habits of these 18-to-29-year-olds have remained mostly steady over the past three years, and more young men are reporting engagement with Scripture.

Like other recent analysis, State of the Bible portrays a nebulous spiritual landscape. Americans between the ages of 18 and 29 are the least Christian generation in the US, according to the most recent Pew Research Center data.

But other research and anecdotal evidence indicate an ever-so-slightly-shifting tide: young Christians who are desiring deeper and more authentic spiritual connections, returning to church or visiting for the first time, and experiencing revival movements in the US, Europe, and beyond.

Boluwatife Familoni, a 22-year-old from Ibadan, Nigeria, reads the Bible from 5 a.m. to 6 a.m. every day. His favorite story is the one about David and Goliath, reminding him that “you might be small, but you are mighty in the eyes of God.”

“Every time I read the Bible, it’s like God is … showing me something new,” he said.

His 27-year-old brother Oluwaloni Familoni agrees. In his daily Bible time, he tries to read passages from the Old and New Testament concurrently. He loves the Old Testament because it’s “entertaining” and has “lots of drama,” although he wishes he was more consistent in writing down what he’s learning from Scripture.

State of the Bible also reported that Scripture reading overall is up 29 percent among American millennials, now aging into their 30s and early 40s. Perhaps surprisingly, their Bible reading habits still lean print-heavy, though they also use digital tools.

Meanwhile, Gen Z Christians are the least likely to read a printed Bible. Of those who consume Scripture digitally, 59 percent use a Bible app, a third prefer podcasts, and nearly a quarter learn on TikTok.

Globally, YouVersion has the most popular Bible app, which includes the Bible App, the Bible App Lite for internet-restricted places, and the Bible App for Kids. It anticipates reaching 1 billion downloads—a number that represents approximately one-eighth of the world’s population—by November 17.

YouVersion doesn’t collect demographic data from its users, so its researchers don’t know how many young people are using the app. But Bible App founder and CEO Bobby Gruenewald said momentum among Gen Z readers is reflected in search trends.

“There’s clearly a hunger among Gen Z for truth they can anchor their lives on. In a world where AI and digital noise make it increasingly difficult to know what’s real, the Bible stands alone as a source of truth that’s been carefully passed down from generation to generation for centuries,” Gruenewald said. “Gen Z is recognizing that. They’re turning to something with substance, something they know they can trust.”

Nigeria boasts the largest expansion (35%) of daily Bible reading on the app. Esther Oni, a 27-year-old Nigerian who currently lives in Milwaukee, said its studies have drawn her closer to God, leading her to read Scripture and pray more.

“When I haven’t read the Bible in a while, I have this crippling level of anxiety,” she said. “I’m just worried about every single thing. [But] no matter what part of Scripture it is I’m reading, there’s just that peace.”

In Latin America, the YouVersion app experienced the most significant growth in downloads in Peru (17%) this year, outperforming Chile (13%) and Brazil (6%). The USA saw a 13 percent increase in downloads.

There’s been a significant shift in how Peruvian Gen Zers read the Bible, said Robin Rodriguez, general secretary of the Asociación de Grupos Evangélicos Universitarios del Perú (Association of Evangelical University Groups of Peru, AGEUP). Previously, many young people struggled to understand minor prophets like Obadiah, Nahum, and Zephaniah. But recent Gen Z–led protests in the country demanding an end to widespread corruption and crime prompted him to introduce Bible studies about these minor prophets to university students, focused on how the prophets served as “seekers of justice” in their contexts.  

“Suddenly, books that were previously ignored took on profound relevance,” Rodriguez said, “demonstrating that when the Bible engages with the specific contexts and concerns of the generation, it becomes a powerful motivator for reading and action.”

In general, stagnant Bible reading may reflect a discipleship issue rather than a lack of interest. Gen Zers might not have people who can teach them how to read the Bible, or they may not understand how God speaks to them through his Word just as he does through prayer. When that guidance is made available, young people take advantage of it. Keithen Schwahn, a young-adult pastor at Church of the City in New York City, told CT earlier this year that his congregation is seeing dramatic growth in its teen discipleship group, and its college students are starting successful prayer groups and Bible studies on their campuses.

“In the past, we have very, very much focused on the Bible—its inspiration, its holiness—but maybe at times have done that at the cost of helping a generation understand how it actually applies to their lives, how it is relevant and is helpful,” former youth pastor Shane Sanchez told Barna in 2023. “We’ve sought to make the Bible, and faith at large, understandable for the next generation, when really what they need is to understand that it is to be experienced, not just understood.”

Bible sales have been steadily rising over the past decade, especially since 2020. In 2024 alone, they were up 22 percent, reaching a record 17 million units sold. (Book sales overall rose less than 1 percent that year.) The KJV giant-print Bible, designed for older readers, was the best-selling Bible of 2024. But the NIV Adventure Bible for kids and CSB She Reads Truth Bibles (popular with young women) made up 3 of the top 10.

The State of the Bible survey postulated that the popular television show The Chosen could be influencing Bible sales, as their rise has paralleled the show’s global success.

And Charlie Kirk’s assassination in September also caused a significant surge, reported The Wall Street Journal. Social media users posted anecdotes of first-time Bible purchases and church attendance after the conservative activist’s death.

No matter the cause, more Scripture reading is only good news.

“I love that God speaks to me through the Bible and speaks about my situation,” Oluwaloni said. “Anything I’m going through, the answer is in the Bible.”

“When you’re not feeding your soul with the truth, you’re not going to see change,” TikTok influencer Hailey Gillman said. “I promise you, reading the Bible will change you.”

Kara Bettis Carvalho is a features editor at Christianity Today. Isabel Ong contributed to this report.

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Jihadists Persecute Christians in Nigeria. Is It Genocide?

One pastor decries government denials that militants are targeting Christians.

Rev. Ezekiel Dachomo officiating the mass burial of at least 12 Christians victims of Islamic militancy on October 15, 2025.

Rev. Ezekiel Dachomo officiating the mass burial of at least 12 Christians victims of Islamic militancy on October 15, 2025.

Christianity Today November 3, 2025
Image: Youtube / Edits by CT

A crowd of about 200 mourners gathered under the clear sky of Barkin Ladi in Nigeria’s Plateau State as pastor Ezekiel Dachomo officiated the mass burial of at least 12 Christian victims of Islamic militancy on October 15.

“I am in bitterness,” Dachomo told the crowd in a video posted online. In another video, Dachomo cries out, “We are tired to be outside performing burial every day, and they expect us to [be silent].”

He went on to call out the Nigerian government for denying the genocide of Christians and pleaded to the UN, the US Senate, and President Donald Trump to save them, as “they are killing Christians in Nigeria.”

Dachomo, the regional leader of the Church of Christ in Nations, later told a local news outlet that he posted the video “so the world will not deny or forget the scale of the killings,” in what he calls an “ongoing Christian genocide.” Dachomo said he has received death threats over the phone and social media since speaking out.

On Friday, Trump seemingly responded to Dachomo and other Nigerian Christians’ cries by declaring Nigeria a Country of Particular Concern (CPC) for religious freedom.

For years, the Middle Belt states, where a majority Muslim north intersects with a majority Christian south, has witnessed a series of attacks by Muslim Fulani herders. The herders travel across Nigeria seeking grazing for their cattle. This leads to conflict with farmers who want to protect their crops. Some Fulani herders carry AK-47s, which are illegal in Nigeria, claiming the firearms are used to protect their cattle from hostile communities.

Meanwhile, remnants of the jihadist militant group Boko Haram continue to attack Christian villages in northern Nigeria.

The violence in central and northern Nigeria has been at the center of international debate since late September, when commentator Bill Maher drew attention to Christian persecution there. “[The Islamists and Boko Haram] are systematically killing the Christians in Nigeria,” Maher said on Real Time With Bill Maher. “They are literally attempting to wipe out the Christian population of an entire country.”

Maher’s comments received pushback from pro-government voices in Nigeria. “There is no systematic, intentional attempt either by the Nigerian government or by any serious group to target a particular religion,” information minister Idris Muhammed said.

Yet statistics from Open Doors International indicate that a Christian in northern Nigeria is 6.5 times more likely to be killed than a Muslim and more than 5 times more likely to be abducted. The Open Doors’ 2025 World Watch List ranks Nigeria as the seventh deadliest country for Christians.

Militants killed more than 7,000 Christians and abducted at least 7,800 Christians this year,  according to an August report by the International Society for Civil Liberties and Rule of Law. The report also stated jihadists have a destroyed over 19,000 churches, displaced more than 1,100 communities, and killed 125,000 Christians since 2009.

The United Nations defines genocide as “acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnical, racial or religious group.” The forcible “transferring children of the group to another group” also qualifies a situation as genocide.

Some analysts argue that Nigeria’s mass killings don’t count as genocide since Islamic extremists also kill other Muslims they view as “apostate.” Dachomo contends that doesn’t mean militant groups aren’t targeting Christians. He argues that Fulani militants coordinate their attacks on Christian communities and that the government—currently Muslim-led—is turning a blind eye.

“These are Muslims chanting ‘Allahu Akbar’ when they are attacking,” Dachomo told CT. “That’s the first thing you hear them shout.”

Gimba Kakanda, senior special assistant to Nigerian president Bola Tinubu, attributed the killings to herder-farmer clashes and Nigeria’s complex security crises. “The Fulani herders are mostly Muslim, while the farmers come from diverse groups,” he wrote. “This demographic divide can create the illusion of a religious war, but at its root are disputes over resources. Both sides have been perpetrators and victims.”

Zayiri Yusuf, a Nigerian political analyst, disagrees, saying Islamic groups have primarily targeted Christian communities: “I am yet to find any Muslim community where people have been sacked and others came in to occupy those places.”

When Fulani herders attacked Yelwata, Benue State, in June, they first targeted the local Catholic church before moving on to private homes. They slaughtered at least 1,000 residents overnight in multiple strikes. Their attacks have also spread to the south.

Boko Haram’s 2009 insurgency, which sought to establish an Islamic caliphate across northern Nigeria, also threatens Christians. Boko Haram opposes democracy and rejects Western-style education, which they link to Christianity.

In 2012, Boko Haram issued an ultimatum giving Christians living in northern Nigeria three days to leave the area. They bombed churches and kidnapped unsuspecting victims, including young schoolgirls whom they forced to convert to Islam. In 2018, Boko Haram abducted Leah Sharibu, a Christian schoolgirl, in Dapchi, Yobe State.

Boko Haram returned more than 100 of the kidnapped girls, most of them Muslims, after negotiations. But they demanded that Sharibu renounce her faith, wear a hijab, and recite Islamic declarations. When she refused to covert, they kept her captive.

Veronica Kaduwa, who spent more than three years in Boko Haram captivity before escaping, said she experienced sexual abuse, torture, and pressure to convert to Islam. Kaduwa told CT she saw Sharibu, now a mother of at least three children, in the forest: “Sharibu encouraged me not to convert to Islam.”

Boko Haram split in 2016 after a leadership crisis, which the Nigerian military saw as a sign of the group’s impending demise. However, the Islamic State in West Africa Province (ISWAP), a splinter group, continues to wreak havoc across northeast Nigeria and the Lake Chad Basin.

In April, ISWAP claimed responsibility for two attacks on Banga village, a Christian community in Adamawa State, killing two Christians and destroying more than 30 houses and a church. Analysts described this as a strategic resurgence.

In recent months, US politicians have started speaking up. Early this month, West Virginia Rep. Riley Moore urged the US government to once again designate Nigeria as a CPC, an act that could lead to sanctions. Trump had given Nigeria that designation in December 2020, but former president Joe Biden lifted it a year later. On October 31, Trump restored Nigeria’s CPC status.

In September, Texas Sen. Ted Cruz introduced the Nigeria Religious Freedom Accountability Act of 2025 to impose sanctions on Nigerian officials enabling jihadist violence and enforcing blasphemy laws against Christians in majority Muslim states. Cruz accused the Nigerian authorities of “ignoring and even facilitating the mass murder of Christians by Islamist jihadists.”

In Sokoto State, police allegedly failed to properly prosecute the lynching of Deborah Samuel, a Christian accused of insulting Muhammad in a WhatsApp group in 2022. The suspects went free.

While the Nigerian government has set up special security units to defend farmers from jihadist groups Boko Haram and ISWAP, locals say extremist violence persists.

Dachomo said police and military are difficult to contact whenever militants attack Christian communities because official phones are often switched off. Even when the police answer the phones, “They do nothing.”

In Barkin Ladi, Dachomo has seen boys as young as 12 form vigilante groups, gathering sticks and cutlasses to defend against the attackers’ AK-47s.

“At night, we pray and wish each other a good night,” Dachomo said. “If we see ourselves alive in the morning we say, ‘Thank you, Jesus.’”

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From Dust, New Lore

It is up to us to dip our pens into the ink of the past to tell the story of the future.

Inkwell November 3, 2025
Photo by Elizabeth Joy Sanders, Malibu, 2025

Sometimes you see things that your brain can’t immediately comprehend—a vision too strange or horrible to fit into our category of expectation. Language can take a while to catch up to the scenes that play out before us.

A few weeks ago, I sat on the trunk of my car in a no-parking zone, waiting for my wife to walk down from her second-story church office on Head Street in our small town. She was on maternity leave, training her replacement with our baby wrapped in a carrier across her front as she typed away on the laptop—passing on her passion and expertise to the children’s ministry coordinator coming in behind her.

As I waited for her down a narrow alley, I thought about the hilarious concept of myself sitting on the back of a trunk, hazards on, one leg propped up, like I was in some 1970s rom-com waiting for my woman.

I was thinking about the idea of photography and how we pose to imitate natural life. I was thinking to myself about John Berger’s Ways of Seeing—a book that I still haven’t read but have heard so much about—and how funny it is that we take photos of ourselves and others in places or positions that life would rarely naturally cause, as if art created life. So I sat on the trunk of my car in a way that made me feel cool, away from any eyes or cameras, congratulating myself on living artfully even down an empty back alley.

Just a few seconds later, my theorizing about my own image was interrupted by a scene that I was unable to process. All I knew was that my body said to run toward the tiny flailing limbs. 

I saw the silhouette of my baby’s head inches away from the pavement, her neck careening to the edges of my wife’s fingertips. I saw two or three men standing around, looking down at the curb. There was my friend who had helped carry the stroller down from the office and who had recently endured an unspeakable tragedy of his own. And there was my wife, with a skinned knee, shaking legs, and arms that had held our baby tight to her chest as her foot caught the curb and her legs buckled beneath her.

Five seconds later, it was clear that all was completely fine, but we remained in a haze of adrenaline and the blurry edges of our vision. Our brains were still catching up. As reality reconfigured and our tongues came unglued, we all chuckled nervously on the street’s sidewalk and thanked the men who had stopped suddenly to help my wife up from her semi-prone position, patting her back and asking if she was okay.

As we returned to the car, the sight of my open trunk made me laugh in its absurdity. We buckled our baby in the car seat, and my wife told me she had only seen that kind of fear in my eyes once or twice before. We both congratulated me on proving that I wasn’t a “flight” guy when that flight-or-fight response hit, but I secretly wasn’t so sure. As I turned the key in the ignition, it seemed that both the small, young women in my care were safe for the time being. But the scene lingered for a while after. Now, here I am writing about it a month later as I construct some kind of pitch for why you should be interested in our latest literary endeavor. 

Elizabeth Joy Sanders, Malibu, 2025

Sometimes, the most monotonous settings can yield the most jarring insights. Clarity can come after you’ve wiped the fog from the lens of daily life, or the glass we see through darkly catches a piercing shard of light, revealing just how dim our perception actually is most of the time.

Substack essays and social clips galore tell us about the overlapping crises we’re experiencing as a society, and the algorithmic overload we’re all exposed to through our filter bubbles. We see mini-apocalypses happening every day, with fresh tension and terror revealed every time we click the side button of our slim plastic rectangle.

Nonetheless, everyday life doesn’t feel so bad all the time. Humdrum sets in, and we go about our routine commutes to and from work, our conversations with and between family, our desires for rest and excitement—all these come and go with the flow of weeks and years going by. The tension feels strange for many people.

So often, the college students and early-career go-getters I interact with desperately want to know whether their creative work has any worth, whether the fire in their bones will lead to any legitimate opportunity to stamp the world with their mark. More often than not, the hum of modern life makes it feel like there’s both too much and too little going on to make sense of anything fully.

The life of Thomas Stearns Eliot offers us an unsentimental and self-forgetful view of the creative person at work: a daytime banker with the moonlit mind of a poet.

During his years, the West had made it through another war, but not without an adrenal overload, a seared conscience, and a traumatizing scene to decompress from. There was no going back. The center could not hold, and the blood and cruelty had boiled over into something new, sticky and sickly.

Standing on the edge of a stagnant river that snaked its way through his adoptive country, Eliot scanned the shore and saw the ruins of a way of understanding the world that no longer worked—a wasteland of fragmented meaning.

Elizabeth Joy Sanders, Malibu, 2025

Eliot had a friend in Ezra Pound, a fellow poet who did not make it through the war unscathed, both morally and mentally. While Eliot and Pound wrote about their context filled with evil powers and undertones, they conceived these flashes of gritty human history as glimpses of an overarching whole—one that could still be communicated through the conduit of poetry.

Eliot deeply admired Pound for focusing his poetic impulse outward. Pound examined mythic knowledge and the annals of obscure human history in order to secure the self within a universal metanarrative. He argued that the esoteric lore of the past could indeed help construct a poetic understanding of ourselves in the now. Yet The Pisan Cantos features one of Pound’s most famous lines, in which he admits defeat: “Tho’ my errors and wrecks lie about me … I cannot make it cohere.”

Despite his erudition, Pound could not bind the scattered subjectivism of postmodernity into an integrated whole. It had been blown to smithereens by the world wars. Even so, he couldn’t shake the belief in some kind of coherence undergirding reality, of which he spoke about in strange and confusing bursts, exclaiming that “it coheres all right, even if my notes do not cohere.” 

Both of these poets, integral to their literary moment, wrote in a riddled new language. They drew on the conventions of the old, broke many linguistic rules of the time, and were only able to make partial sense of the new world. Each captured the fragmented syllables of a cultural wasteland, wrecked and ruined.

The years that preceded them had shattered any naive perceptions of how bad human evil could actually be. How could one live a normal life, make good art, and find meaning in the midst of such cruelty and at the center of such meaninglessness?

For Eliot, his daily life in the finance and publishing sectors allowed him to intuit the situation of a global ecosystem. He absorbed the ingredients and flavors of the society around him, forming a poetic perspective that would be consumed and chewed on for generations to come. This new way of rendering the world—through active creativity—brought stylistic forms and expressions that would carry us all the way from a postmodern age into our era of hypermodernity, with all its simultaneous comforts and confusion.

Today, it feels like many things are coming apart once again. Centers that once held are exploding with a ferocity that we haven’t experienced before in our post-war, Western millennial and Gen Z lives. I don’t ultimately think it is, but it can sometimes feel like the world is truly on the brink of something incomprehensibly sinister. 

Elizabeth Joy Sanders, Malibu, 2025

I once started an arts and culture magazine called Ekstasis. In its infancy, it felt fragile and small, like it was going to fall to pieces if I didn’t prop it up with monthly poetry postings and cradle it with Instagram carousels. It felt weak, but the work felt lively—it was invigorating, and it was my baby before I had a baby. Now I’ve matured slightly, and this project has reached a kind of adolescence, currently growing into its new identity as Inkwell. It’s still figuring out what it is, but it has a lot more energy and sustenance than in those newborn months.

I can honestly say that I don’t know whether the world of arts, culture, media, and all the things that I give my hours of leisure and paid labor to will survive this century’s great upheaval in their current form. Indeed, they will mature and morph, often in uncomfortable and unfamiliar ways.

Yet I believe that God beckons us through the strange appetite for beauty and truth that remains embedded in the human spirit, which he loves so much. He will continue to beckon and call to us through our heavenly longings, and I desperately want to play a tiny role in creating atmospheres and environments that welcome the call, no matter how faint or how small.

Ezra Pound’s poetry did not make it all cohere, nor did his notes. T. S. Eliot revealed the wasteland’s dusty ruins, but he couldn’t bring us back into the garden. Our poetry and art might not create reality, but they shape our hopes and longings and can remind us over and over of “the laughter in the garden, echoed ecstasy.” 

We think of ourselves way too much, posturing on the trunks of our cars and in front of our black mirrors, absorbing fake words that come from a void and go nowhere fast.

As in their day, it seems like history and language are once again at an inflection point. Eliot and Pound knew something strange was afoot. We once again face a pivotal moment. And it is up to us to dip our fountain pens into the ink of the past and to reckon with the burning in our bones to tell the story of the future.

Though we see and speak in part now, all will one day be revealed. In the meantime, we echo the question posed by C. S. Lewis: Why should God hear the babble that we think we mean? I think it’s because he loves us enough to hear our meaningless chatter become half-formed syllables on the tongue of history.

From dust, there will be new lore. We need creative outlets and lasting networks that will help us thrive in this strange new world. We need local haunts and third spaces where friendships are formed and where the depths of our souls can cry out to one another.

For the next few years at least, Inkwell has the resources and inspiration to help make something small and special happen, and we don’t want to let this opportunity pass us by.

Let’s dine together and find a new language for the future. Be a Local.

Conor Sweetman is the founding editor of Inkwell (formerly Ekstasis) and the director of innovation at Christianity Today.

Books
Review

Finding God on the Margins of American Universities

A new account of faith in higher education adds some neglected themes to more familiar story lines.

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Christianity Today October 31, 2025
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Many scholars have written about the history of secularization in American higher education. But most of their accounts focus on elite, mainline Protestant institutions. I have been waiting for a book like Religion and the American University, which looks at how God fared among religious groups and institutions on the margins. Author James W. Fraser, an emeritus professor of history and education at New York University, delves into key parts of this neglected story.

He does so by sharing a helpful chronological narrative of religion in higher education after the Civil War, including case studies of particular colleges, more independent cocurricular movements, and campus religious organizations. Most of his specific case studies highlight institutions that were originally marginal to elite American higher education, such as historically Black colleges as well as those serving evangelicals, Jews, and Native Americans. Similarly, his account of cocurricular groups looks beyond well-known entities, like the YMCA and YWCA, to include college chaplains, Catholic Newman Clubs, Jewish Hillel communities, and others.

Rather than revisiting familiar narratives of religious colleges drifting toward secularism, Fraser helpfully focuses on the creative impulses that helped start these diverse institutions in the first place. That said, he does not neglect how secularizing trends in religious higher education have mirrored similar trends in mainline Protestant institutions, which often drifted away from historic Christian orthodoxy during the 20th century.

For example, Fraser quotes a 1937 graduate of the previously evangelical Mount Holyoke College, who noted that one need not “fear a revival of the revivals, or any other outdated custom,” because the school was “primarily interested in its relationship with the world.” Apparently, Mount Holyoke’s leaders had not been reading the Gospel or Epistles of John.

The book’s first major strength is Fraser’s astute attention to the diversity of religious higher education. Although he still neglects some more marginal examples—such as Adventist, Lutheran, Anabaptist, and Pentecostal institutions—he does an admirable job of expanding our understanding of American religious higher education.    

A second major strength is Fraser’s attention to cocurricular groups, a marginalized topic in most historical discussions. As he helpfully recounts, this portion of the university carried the torch of student religious formation at a time, early in the 20th century, when educational leaders were casting this mission aside in the formal curriculum. Here, Fraser highlights the influence of campus chapel services, the YMCA and YWCA, denominational guilds, and chaplains at both private and public universities. His story also expands to include important non-Christian groups like Hillel International.

Fraser helps readers see the ebbs and flows of religion in cocurricular life. In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, he notes, the YMCA and the Student Volunteer Movement dominated the campus religious scene. By the mid-20th century, however, those groups had diminished significantly and college chaplaincy had exploded. Another major shift occurred in the 1960s and ’70s, marked by the emergence of new student groups like InterVarsity Christian Fellowship and Campus Crusade (now Cru).

Oddly, Fraser portrays the following two decades as a period of relative religious decline on campus. I say “oddly” because he makes clear that evangelical parachurch groups grew tremendously during this time. I can attest to that. When I was an undergraduate at Rice University in the late 1980s, over 10 percent of the school’s 2,500 students were engaged in Campus Crusade Bible studies. In reality, Fraser makes the common mistake of interpreting campus religious life through a mainline Protestant lens, attaching greater significance to a decline in college chaplains from established denominations than the corresponding rise of evangelical parachurch groups.

Fraser omits other important dimensions in his account of cocurricular organizations—one more historical and one more contemporary. Anyone familiar with the story of Christianity and intercollegiate sports knows that Christianity played a key role in early collegiate athletics, and Fraser could have given that subject greater attention. He also neglects the significant growth, in recent years, of Christian study centers, as well as Catholic institutes of thought (like the Lumen Christi Institute).

When it comes to broad themes, Fraser highlights two new ones that merit mention. First, he helpfully points out the role of competition—between cities and states, between denominations, or even within denominations—in reshaping the landscape of religious higher education. For example, we learn how Randolph-Macon College, one of America’s oldest Methodist schools, lost out on funding because Methodists in Georgia wanted their own college (present-day Emory University).

This competition also extended to cocurricular groups. Fraser reminds us that both Protestant and Catholic college leaders critiqued the advent of chaplains at secular universities. They feared losing revenue and support from Christian parents and students who might find these universities more attractive as a result. Likewise, leaders of parachurch groups, such as the YMCA’s John Mott, saw little need for university chaplains or pastors from specific denominations.

I hear the same concerns today, whether from administrators at Christian colleges, college pastors in churches, denomination-led student ministries, or parachurch staff at secular universities. Instead of trusting God and having a generous mindset toward fellow Christian laborers, they worry about a proliferation of choices shrinking their share of the student pie.

Fraser picks up on another important theme in addressing the practice of Christian hospitality on campus. As universities became more secular-minded in their approach to residential life, Christians began filling in the gaps. For instance, he highlights the first college chaplain, J. Leslie French at the University of Michigan, who saw providing hospitality as one vital element of his ministry. He and his wife hosted dinners for students most Friday and Saturday nights, a practice now emulated by many Christian study centers at secular universities.

Yet Fraser also recognizes that Christian efforts to extend campus hospitality sometimes resulted in religious tensions. He tells the story of a Hindu student, Anandibai Joshi, who came to the United States in 1883. She gained admission to the Women’s Medical College of Pennsylvania (today’s Drexel University College of Medicine), where she lived with Rachel Bodley, the Christian dean of the college. In deference to her religious beliefs, Bodley let Joshi cook vegetarian meals in her house. As Fraser tells the story, however, the dean “struggled with her sense that she should try to convert Joshi to Christianity and her responsibility to extend hospitality and respect to Joshi’s Hindu beliefs. The demands of hospitality won, and Bodley supported Joshi.”

I find it interesting that Fraser frames Bodley’s decision as a contest between hospitality and sharing the gospel. After all, most Christians would regard both as core duties of Christian outreach, even if they might worry about evangelizing in counterproductive ways. Unfortunately, Fraser’s false dichotomy often prevails today among many Christian college administrators, faculty, and staff members, who think they must refrain from challenging conversations or direct Christian witness for the sake of showing hospitality and respect.

Fraser ends the book by discussing the unique experiment occurring at Baylor University, my academic home for the past 23 years. Baylor’s goal is integrating the mission of Christian education with the intellectual aspirations of major research universities. One major challenge to this synthesis, however, is the persistence of a mindset pitting hospitality and Christ-animated learning against each other.

Fraser’s book, while excellent overall, has one area that would have benefited from a bit more precision and fewer broad generalizations: his account of religion’s role in the development of the curriculum.

In the introduction, Fraser tells us that early course offerings were “deeply suffused with Christianity.” On the same page, however, he appears to contradict himself, writing, “It may be surprising that there was so much of the so-called pagan classics and so little Bible in the curriculum.” There are certainly elements of truth in both statements. But readers who are unfamiliar with the historical details of Christianity’s relationship to early liberal arts models might find themselves confused.

A few pages later, Fraser gives a more accurate summary. “For all their focus on college creation,” he writes, “the founders of most schools did not put a lot of thought into the curriculum. They simply adopted the core of the classical curriculum as it was taught at older schools, especially Yale.” I would argue that this relative inattentiveness meant the curriculum was not “suffused with Christianity.” Instead, Christianity was merely a curricular add-on until the movement to integrate faith and learning emerged among evangelical colleges in the mid-20th century.

Moreover, Fraser misses certain aspects of how Christian colleges authored their own curricular innovations. His section on the academic study of the Bible repeats the view of older scholars who trace its origins to Yale in the early 1900s. However, my own research reveals that numerous evangelical colleges had already adopted this approach shortly after the Civil War, integrating the study of the Bible into the required curriculum rather than relegating it to required Sunday School classes and chapel services.

Omissions like these suggest the possibility of a more detailed story about the historical relationship between Christianity and the college curriculum, especially as it relates to Christianity’s influence (or lack thereof) outside of later religious studies courses. I hope Fraser, or another similarly gifted scholar, will devote a future book to telling it.

Perry L. Glanzer is a professor of educational foundations at Baylor University and a resident scholar with the Baylor Institute for Studies of Religion. He is the coauthor of Christian Higher Education: An Empirical Guide and The Outrageous Idea of Christian Teaching.

Church Life

Indian Churches Encourage Couples to Leave and Cleave

For many couples, in-laws are a major source of marital strife.

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Christianity Today October 31, 2025
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After a visit with her new in-laws the day after her wedding, 26-year-old Taara Ravupoodi left anxious and confused by a question her mother-in-law asked her and her husband.

“After God comes who?” her mother-in-law asked angrily.

“Your spouse,” she responded. Yet her new mother-in-law kept repeating the question until she heard the only acceptable answer from her son: “Parents.”

Ravupoodi, an Indian American living in Indianapolis, married her husband, who immigrated to the US from South India at a young age, more than a year ago. Conflicts with family began on her wedding day, when her father-in-law stormed out of the reception because the hired flutist played instrumental music that included upbeat secular songs.

Since then, nearly every tension between the couple has been tied to her in-laws, and they struggle to find the balance between honoring their parents and prioritizing their marriage. Highlighting the sensitivity of this topic in Indian society, Ravupoodi asked to use a pseudonym, as she feared speaking out would hurt her relationship with her in-laws.

Many couples in India and among the Indian diaspora face marital stress due to the strong influence parents have over their children and their children’s marriages. Pastors and counselors trace most marriage problems in India to couples not “leaving and cleaving” from the husband’s family, a reference to the command in Genesis 2:24 that “a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.”

Christian ministries in India are helping couples push back against cultural norms while honoring both their in-laws and their spouses. 

Prabhan Chandy Mathew, founder of Urban India Ministries (UIM) in Bengaluru, India, has mentored and ministered to families across India for more than three decades. He noted that, unlike in the West, where children often move out of their parents’ home after high school, in India most children live with their parents even after they get married.

Many Indian parents are deeply invested in their children’s lives—paying for their education and amassing property and wealth for them—and therefore have high expectations of their children. These expectations continue beyond marriage and hinder any attempts at biblical leaving and cleaving, Mathew said.

Mathew added that India’s philosophical understanding of the hierarchy of priorities, “Matha, Pitha, Guru, Daivam” (Mother, Father, Teacher, God), also adds to the problem.

“God is last on that list, and the mother is first,” Mathew said. “And that’s exactly what we see in many Indian Christian homes.” He pointed to popular Indian sayings such as “Your mother has carried you in her womb for nine months, but your wife just came in yesterday.” As a result, “in the Indian context, the biblical ‘leaving’ process becomes more of a ‘grieving’ process, for both children and parents.”

When Ravupoodi’s husband, who had only ever lived with his parents, moved from Chicago to Indianapolis to live with his wife, he felt immense pressure to make sure he didn’t disappoint his parents. Meanwhile, Ravupoodi, who had known her in-laws for several years before marrying her son, noted that her mother-in-law became more possessive of her son after they got married. She’d point out to Ravupoodi how her son was “her everything,” often holding his hand, making it seem like she was competing for his affection.

“She once told me that ‘You might be holding his arm on one side, but I’m always on the other side, holding his arm too,’” Ravupoodi recalled.

Ravupoodi’s husband initially struggled to set boundaries and truly “leave” his parents out of the fear of disobeying them. He also felt indebted to his parents for helping him pay off his college tuition.

When her husband struggled last year to muster up the courage to tell his parents that they’d spend half of their Thanksgiving break with Ravupoodi’s family and half with his family, the couple sought their pastor’s advice.

The American pastor, who had known Ravupoodi’s husband and his family for many years, pointed out that his parents’ expectations of only spending the holiday with them were unfeasible for a married man. He had to be okay with disappointing them. The couple ended up spending three days with Ravupoodi’s family and five days with his family.

Mathew notes that when a couple lives with parents, which is the case for about 70 percent of married couples in India, they aren’t given a chance to become an independent unit. 

“The rule over the parental home is still with the parents, and the newlywed wife often does not even have the autonomy to cook a meal for her husband or do things her way,” he said. Even when couples live separately from parents, Mathew says parents continue to meddle remotely by frequently calling to check on the couple, advising on important decisions, and expecting the couple to visit often.

One pastor of an independent church in New Delhi noted that for many Indians, leaving and cleaving is seen as dishonoring parents. (He asked for anonymity as his church and NGO are currently facing persecution.) He’s seen a married man in his church struggle because his parents expected him to buy them a house, fund his siblings’ weddings, and meet all of their financial needs and wants. As a first-generation Christian who’s trying to share the gospel with his family, the parishioner faces immense pressure to provide for his parents while also prioritizing his own marriage.

Churches are becoming more open in addressing these issues in their congregations, Mathew said. “Many pastors are seeing enough marriage breakdowns within their churches and are realizing that it is beyond their ability to help couples in distress. So they’re reaching out to us for solutions.”

Apart from counseling couples, UIM has held annual marriage retreats since 2003 and started a couples and family counselling helpline in 2015, which now operates in six languages.

In 2023, UIM released a nine-session premarital education curriculum that hundreds of Indian churches now use. The Scripture-based lessons present real-life scenarios and ask couples how they would deal with them. The last session is for the couples’ parents, and they are specifically taught to release their children.

The session is not easy, said Nibu Skariah, pastor of an independent church in Bengaluru who has been using UIM’s curriculum in his church for two years now. He says many parents are not comfortable listening to lessons in a formal setting. But he finds that having a few prior informal conversations with the parents to understand their contexts and mindsets is helpful. The sessions have seen some success in his church, and he has been able to guide both parents and children into the idea of separation, including living separately after marriage.

In cases where parents are insistent on the couple staying with them, Skariah advises couples to live separately for at least a few years after getting married before returning to live with the in-laws. Skariah, who himself struggled while living with his family after getting married, said a couple should strengthen their own relationship first so that they can deal with the frictions of joint living.

However, some pastors emphasize that leaving and cleaving does not always equate living apart.

“When the command to leave and cleave was given in Genesis or in later books, it was given to the Israelites living in tents, by family, by clan,” the New Delhi pastor said. “So I’m careful to point out that it’s not really about physically moving out necessarily but about prioritizing one’s marriage.”

Mathew views the separation as similar to cutting an umbilical cord, which becomes vital for both the mother and the child after a point. But he believes that in an Indian context, it is essential to teach that this is foremost an emotional detachment, rather than a physical one. In restricted environments where physical separation is not possible, he advises couples not to force the issue and to move out only when it’s possible to.

The New Delhi pastor said he makes sure to talk openly with his congregants about leaving and cleaving because he believes it’s good for couples and parents to hear the countercultural message over and over again. Apart from one-on-one conversations and premarital counseling, he also tries to incorporate the idea into his Sunday services and wedding sermons. His church also conducts couples’ retreats every few years, where these topics are discussed in detail.

“Over the last few decades, India has changed a lot: There are more nuclear families, more love marriages, more women working outside of the home,” he said. “People are looking for guidance and are eager to hear the message on leaving and cleaving. So I think it’s the right time to be talking about all these issues relating to marriage.”

However, he’s found that due to the negative impression of counseling, or just the cultural shame around sharing personal problems, people often don’t come to a local pastor for any kind of counseling until things have gotten really bad.

Ravupoodi and her husband never sought counsel from Indian American churches in their area because they feel that community is very parent-centric and preaches a narrative that puts parents above everything, including God’s will. However, the couple has benefited from a Christian counselor who’s been teaching them to build healthy boundaries and establish trust and safety in their marriage.

For instance, the counselor advised them to decide beforehand how many hours they would spend with in-laws, what they would do during their time together, what topics they would discuss, and how to handle a conflict should it arise. He also advised Ravupoodi’s husband to speak up when his parents are being disrespectful.

Ravupoodi said her in-laws have at times been upset and resistant toward some of the boundaries. But overall, things have improved, especially between Ravupoodi and her husband.

“A lot of the beliefs in the Indian Christian community are rooted in Hindu traditions, including putting your parents above everything,” Ravupoodi said. “And it’s now up to us, our generation, to break away from those unbiblical generational traditions. So the hard work is for us to do now.”

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