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A Better Conversation about Homosexuality

Three recent books expose the cultural captivity of the church to Western ideas about sexuality.

A Better Conversation about Homosexuality

Just at the point of exhaustion and irritability, when we think the debate on homosexuality in the church has reached its end—with every position articulated, every line drawn in the sand, every constituency ghettoized—other voices emerge to remind us that the conversation must proceed. Despite anxiety for ourselves and the church, the conversation must proceed because God has called us to this annoyance as he has called previous generations of Christians to other annoyances; the interpretation of Scripture requires us to think deeply and wait patiently upon God; the shalom of the church is at risk if we close down the search for agreement; and, lest we forget, some of God’s precious children live upon the rack.

Three fresh and challenging voices aid us in their books: Wesley Hill’s Washed and Waiting: Reflections on Christian Faithfulness and Homosexuality (Zondervan), Jenell Williams Paris’s The End of Sexual Identity: Why Sex Is Too Important to Define Who We Are (IVP), and Oliver O’Donovan’s Church in Crisis: The Gay Controversy and the Anglican Communion (Cascade). Here’s a “gay Christian” and burgeoning New Testament scholar who pursues the vocation of celibacy (Hill), an anthropologist who questions our unexamined appropriation of sexual identity categories (Paris), and a British theologian who reflects on the troubles in his church without entanglement in America’s culture wars (O’Donovan). Two big ideas emerge from their writing. They who have ears, let them hear.

1. The moral status of homosexuality is (not) important.

Against those who regard the moral status of homosexuality as all-important—whether in condemnation or celebration—a minority of progressive evangelicals (Tony Jones, Brian McLaren, and Andrew Marin) have called for a public moratorium on judgments of any kind so that a space of reconciliation can develop between the church and its gay neighbors. They are right to insist that Christians should repent of heterosexism and love their “enemies,” if we conceive of homosexuals that way. But is silence on the moral teachings of Scripture the best way forward? Does respectability with the gay community come at the cost of biblical truth-telling, pastoral care, and church discipline? When Christians wear “I’m Sorry” T-shirts at Gay Pride events, are they apologizing for the church’s spiritual abuse of homosexuals or for the hard edges of the gospel?

Keeping with the church’s traditional consensus on the sin of homosexuality, Paris, O’Donovan, and Hill view the moral status of homosexuality as important but not all-important. Paris recounts an experience in graduate school when a bisexual, atheist classmate asked if she could handle going to a gay bar, even though she had never been to any bar before. Feeling “like a fish out of water or, more to the point, a conservative Christian out of church,” nothing about it shocked her. When this friend tested her—“Jenell, now that we’re on my turf, let me ask you this: Does Christianity really condemn homosexuality?”—she answered as most of us have answered with a simplistic message that affirms the sinfulness of homosexuality. Seeing the hurt and anger in her friend, regret followed. “I had stood up for my faith,” she writes, “so why did I feel like my faith had let me down?”


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STEPHEN R CLARK

August 31, 2012  4:07pm

To paraphrase Kevin Anderson, "the road out of sin [is] a lifetime vigil, not a goalpost." I also agree with Tom Nash that "there are countless other sins in this fallen world. We all have our moral flaws [with which] we struggle to overcome." Even before reading this challenging review I'd come to the conclusion that to *be* gay was not a sin and a Christian who is celibate and self-identifies as gay is not a contradiction of terms. To grow in grace, we each must, in a way, be "celibate," not continuing to indulge in any sinful lifestyles/choices/behaviors/thinking/urges, whether our particular weakness is lying, stealing, cheating, indulging in porn, addiction, gossip, infidelity, vanity, abusiveness, lovelessness, anger, and so on. God created us perfectly. Yet, some sins choose us through Fall-affected genetics, and while this seems unfair, Scripture is clear as to our necessity for choosing non-futile resistance against these sins through Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit.

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J Thomas

August 19, 2012  12:22am

I believe that this will be the issue that the progressive Leviathan uses to try to marginalize serious Christianity from American culture. You can already see it afoot in court cases (Hosanna-Tabor v. EEOC). We may actually have to stand up for the gospel and against popular culture on this issue. As always, we carry that out in love, with humility, and with grace. But we should be serious about what God commands of us. The consequences of advocating sin publicly are grave in that we pave the way to Hell for those who are in jeopardy.

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robert puharic

August 10, 2012  7:55pm

Being a non Christian familiar with the Christian scriptures, I'm amazed at how cafeteria bible reading has captured modern day Christianity. Do you people REALLY expect those of us who know scripture to accept the 'scriptural' definition of homosexuality when scripture is filled with ALL kinds of weird views of human behavior. Stoning women for adultery; acceptance of slavery; polygamy, etc etc. Why are you so ready to pick and choose among scriptural passages that lead to condemnation for people when your own scriptures have equally absurd passages describing OTHER aspects of human behavior. Christians generally don't have an answer for that. But cafeteria Christianity is all the rage. It's ridiculous.

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