There are several ways to reach a diverse range of age groups, but they all begin with a heart-set more than a program. The attitude of the pastor has to be one of love toward every age group, seeing the potential in each. In other words, I love people, but more than that, I love the potential that lies within people!
I see potential in children and young people. So much talent is hidden within them, and if we can harness that, we can move the world! I see latent possibilities in the young married couples and equally in our older adults. Everything our community needs lies within them!
Now with that in mind, I would not program something to "appease" each age group. Instead, I'd rather equip each group so that its potential is released for the kingdom in some beneficial way.
I must keep all of these values in mind—not only when I lead, but also when others lead. As a senior leader, I am a gatekeeper for our values, a kind "reinforcer" of God's heart to young decision-makers. At times, I am a translator and an explainer; at other times, I am a re-arranger of errant decisions made by others I lead.
I have found that even diverse age groups will weather my mistakes when they are convinced of my genuine love for them.