Making Someone Who Lasts

Almost nothing we invest ourselves in or make lasts forever. One exception is our children.

No boy or girl has pre-existence before the moment his or her father and mother come together and meld their God-given capacities as divine image bearers to create new life. What did not exist before—a unique human person, of body and soul—comes into existence.

There's something incredible about the human person. Like the creation of heaven and earth, we each have a beginning. Yet where heaven and earth will pass away (Rev. 21:1), we have no end.

Once our being begins, it goes on forever, beyond physical death, either in resurrected union with God or in estrangement from the source of our life.

I can build a pyramid, paint the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel, or craft a poem cherished in human hearts for thousands of years. But eventually skyscrapers, paintings, and poems fall apart, are destroyed, or are simply forgotten.

Not children. Not these unique eternal treasures that we bring into existence as co-creators with God.

Some of us have this co-creative privilege as natural parents, while others have the privilege as adopters or sponsors or mentors. And most everyone has progeny in whom to invest lasting lovingkindness.

I have seven children. None of them existed before my free choice, before the love my wife and I share, and before our cooperation with God in their beginning.

This is one reason we surround the mystery of marriage with beauty, ceremony, and “until death do us part” vows. This unique marital vocation—to bring eternal souls into being as participants in God's creative powers—is part of what prompts us to elevate marriage, place sentinels at its gates to ...

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