Clothing Matters: What We Wear to Church
- Much of the social meaning of our clothing is contextual. The appropriateness of our dress is often dictated by the situation. Dress that would send a given message in one setting might send a very different message in another. Picture, for example, a young woman dressed in hiking boots, sweatshirt, and shorts. Around a campfire the message might be, merely, "I'm ready for the trail." Choosing that same outfit for her aunt's funeral would say something rather different. Regional variations and issues of local dress loom large. Times change, values change, situations change; what was proper ten years ago may not be proper today, or vice versa.
All of the above is why we should not conclude too quickly that because God looks on the heart, what we wear to church doesn't matter. Our internal and external states cannot be so easily disentangled. The fact is, when it comes to how we clothe ourselves, our external appearance is often an expression of our internal state. Thus our worship attire may matter more than we think.
The Meaning of Worship
What is worship, after all? It's the act of acknowledging and praising God as God; indeed, as our God. It is the adoring response of grateful creatures to their Maker. In worship we come before God with awe and reverence, focusing on him in loving contemplation, celebrating him for who he is and what he has done. We willingly bow before him in surrender, delighting in the privilege of extolling his worthiness. In worship we join our small voices with the celestial choirs in a grand chorus magnifying the Creator and declaring his excellencies: his purity, his power, his beauty, his grace, his mercy, his love.
From the beginning, God has called his people to public worship. It's everywhere in the Bible, and with good reason: our corporate worship pleases God. What's more, we need it as well. Everyone who has ever built a campfire knows how quickly lone embers cool and die. But gather those embers and they create a furnace effect that burns hot. Corporate worship is designed to generate that furnace effect in God's people. Those around us warm our spirits, encourage our faith, and hold us up when we're faltering. As Martin Luther famously put it, "At home, in my own house, there is no warmth or vigor in me, but in the church when the multitude is gathered together, a fire is kindled in my heart and it breaks its way through."
"Do not neglect the gathering of yourselves together," says the writer to the Hebrews (10:25). We come to faith as individuals, but Christ places us instantly into his body, and we require that body for the purposes of worship. There are aspects of worship we cannot fulfill alone. The Lord's Table, for example, belongs to the community; celebrate it when you "come together," says the apostle (1 Cor. 11:18, 33). So also baptism, corporate prayer, the public reading of Scripture, the teaching of Scripture, the corporate confession of sin: all these and more are designed for corporate worship.
Worship Pointers
So what sort of clothing might befit such an exalted occasion? Observers in the gallery of the United States Supreme Court are forbidden to wear hats. Out of respect for the importance of what's taking place there, the Court's firm rule for visitors is, "Inappropriate clothing may not be worn." If this is so for a merely human institution, what might be suitable attire for God-honoring worship?
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Kathryn Brannan
Maybe someone else already made this comment--I did not have a chance to read all of them. I just want to say thank you for the courage to write this article. I agree with with the title and with the reasons given. I guess I do question that the author says he is content with either traditional or contemporary worship styles if done well. I don't think you can separate the contemporary worship style from the relaxed, informal dress. As the author stated, clothing sets a mood, it puts us in a certain mood. Music does this on an even greater level! So if the music is relaxed and informal, the mood it sets fits the relaxed, informal clothing that those worshipers are usually wearing. To me, they go hand in hand and make logical sense to fit together--which is why I have many questions and concerns about contemporary music/worship styles.
jUNE ANGSTADT
The attire in our church varies from those who respect God and God's house to those who look as if they just returned from the beach. Men wear wife beaters, shorts, flip flops, jeans etc. and others wear long khakis and a sport shirt. There's a marked difference in how one thinks about each man coming to worship God. Females of all ages go from appropriate, modest clothing, to micro minis, short shorts, jeans, and what may well be called an indecent, low cut tops. It would even be shocking to see in a department store. The priest says NOTHING.... Modesty used to be a virtue - it's now an option. I was taught situational ethics prevailed - now ethics seem to be a thing of the past. With so many turning away from God, I think this is sad - along with the attitude that one will go to church but on 'his' terms...... A boy, in line to receive the Eucharist, surely doesn't have Jesus on his mind once he sees a half naked woman in the next line.
Sabrina Messenger
This is decidedly a first world problem, but one that is valid. IMO. I deplore how America has become a nation of slobs...but yet remain big spenders. $300 for a pair of ripped jeans? Crazy. Anyway, one of the biggest criticisms that I've heard from non-Christians or anti-Christians is about Christians and the alleged "hypocrisy" we have re: attire. If I had $100 for every time I heard a person say they refuse to go to church because "the people care more about what I'm wearing"...but yet that same person thinks nothing about dropping $500 on a pair of shoes, or several thousand dollars for a handbag or an outfit to wear to go out to a nightclub or on a date to impress another person, or to impress someone to get a job...but that's ok? Now who's being a hypocrite? Call me old fashioned, but it seems to me that making the effort to wear one's "Sunday best" to church (whether purchased from Saks or Salvation Army) is a way to show respect for God...and will always be "in style."