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Steve Cuss & Clarissa Moll: How Your Communication Style Fuels Reactivity—and How to Change It

Communication styles that reduce anxiety: rigid vs fluid, rapid vs deliberate

In this season-opening episode of Being Human, Steve Cuss and Clarissa Moll explore how communication styles can either fuel anxiety and reactivity—or reduce it through deeper connection. Instead of focusing on what we say, they examine how we say it: the hidden subtext, assumptions, and “static” that cause people (especially leaders, couples, and teams) to mishear one another. Steve shares a practical framework for identifying three key communication patterns—rigid vs. fluid, rapid vs. deliberate, and external vs. internal processing—and explains how these differences show up in marriages, workplaces, and conflict. The goal isn’t to label anyone as “right” or “wrong,” but to build awareness that leads to humility, curiosity, and spiritually grounded connection.

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Executive Produced by Erik Petrik and Mike Cosper
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Associate Producer: McKenzie Hill
Edited and mixed by Jim Eckes
Theme song by Dan Phelps
Original Music by Andy Gullahorn

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