The Transgender Moment
John Nemecek struggled with gender confusion from early childhood. Marrying at age 21 didn't change that confusion. Neither did raising three sons—all of whom are themselves now happily married. Four years ago, Nemecek's Internet search of a medical site matched the symptoms he exhibited: gender identity disorder (GID). "It was an awesome experience to realize something I'd been dealing with all my life had a name," Nemecek says. A therapist, endocrinologist, and a counselor all later confirmed the diagnosis.
In 2004, Nemecek began taking female hormones, a process that will last his lifetime. However, there will be no sex reassignment surgery. Nemecek is staying with his wife, Joanne, and they recently celebrated 35 years of marriage.
Nemecek, 56, may now feel he has more clarity about gender identity, but much ambiguity remains. Nemecek's driver's license says "male," but on credit card applications, Nemecek writes "female." Since John and Joanne wed legally, their marriage isn't illegal, even though it appears they are in a lesbian union.
In 2005, Nemecek's employer, Spring Arbor University, learned of John's plans for a court-approved change of first name to "Julie." Afterwards, the Free Methodist-affiliated school in southern Michigan cut Nemecek's pay and reduced job responsibilities. Eventually, Spring Arbor decided not to rehire the business professor and associate dean when Nemecek started wearing a wig, makeup, fingernail polish, and earrings on campus. Nemecek was a 15-year veteran at the university, located in the small town of Spring Arbor, a conservative, churchgoing community of 2,100 people.
After the university's action, Nemecek filed an employment discrimination complaint with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, triggering newspaper headlines across the nation. (Federal courts have yet to settle completely whether federal protections against sexual discrimination in the workplace—Title VII of the Civil Rights Act—protect transgendered people. Several cases are working their way through the justice system.)
In March 2007, Spring Arbor decided to settle out of court, resolving the case and permanently ending Nemecek's employment there. At an official mediation hearing, the professor asked aloud, "Should I deny my head, heart, and soul to live according to what others think of my body? I cannot do that and live a life of Christian integrity."
Nemecek, who spent two decades as a Baptist pastor before joining Spring Arbor's faculty, is currently working as an independent consultant on gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender (GLBT) issues.
"This is something that's in you from the womb," says Nemecek.
Nemecek's transgender experience is still statistically rare, but the profile of transgender issues is rising, both in and outside the church, and evangelical churches and mental health professionals are beginning to respond.
Expanding Civil Rights
The drive to expand civil rights to include transgendered people is gaining momentum. Many films, magazine articles, TV programs, and newspaper commentaries trumpet this campaign, sympathizing with people who feel they have been unfairly targeted because of their transgender condition.
Such media portrayals, including several focusing on elementary-age children with supportive parents, typically blend a sense of injustice and pathos to convince viewers how wrong society has been to label transgendered people as deviant, strange, or sinful.
Advocates say transgendered individuals are at great risk of hate crimes and discrimination in housing and employment searches. In many jurisdictions, it's legal for an employer to dismiss or refuse to hire an individual for being transgendered. A website, gender.org, lists the names of transgendered murder victims. To increase public awareness, advocates have chosen November 20 as the annual National Transgender Day of Remembrance for transgendered victims from the past year.
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Brett Blatchley
Charlie Ray: “There is zero evidence proving that either homosexuality or the transgender condition are biologically or genetically predetermine.” On what basic can you credibly make that remark? Have you investigated this? Assuming you made your remark in “good faith,” then I can answer your question: you have NOT investigated this. I have, and while the current state of our knowledge about HS and TG (which should not be lumped together, BTW), is that biology (nature) and personal experience (nurture) both have a role. No one understands this well, and it is just as much a mistake to say that this is Sin (with no other qualification), than it is to say that such people have No Responsibility (with no moral qualification). Yes, HS and TG ultimately boil down to our fallen selves and fallen world, but just telling such people to “stop sinning” is no more helpful than telling an alcoholic to “stop drinking" (to use a over-simple example). Please educate yourself before commenting.
Charlie Ray
I'm saddened that people have been duped by the propaganda of the liberal left. There is zero evidence proving that either homosexuality or the transgender condition are biologically or genetically predetermined. The short of is that psychological disorders are a result of the sinful human nature. Rebellion is merely a symptom of a deeper malady. It's called total depravity. Sin has so corrupted the human nature that no area of the human nature is left untainted, including the ability to properly reason. I find the rational basis for the so-called transgender condition to utterly and completely absurd.
Shawn
man or women doesnt decide there gender God does if you cant deal with it and try to change Gods plan then you are in fact fighting against Gods will. So i say pray not do what we as sinful man seems to be right .I have tatoos from before i accepted Christ that i had done because I thought it was going to make me into what i wanted to be what a bunch of hog wash God says our body is our temple time to treat it like so