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Home > 2009 > MarchChristianity Today, March, 2009
WRESTLING WITH ANGELS
Hiding What They Seek
In my desire to be 'seeker-friendly,' I'm often guilty of concealing Jesus.




A friend was involved for years in a weekly service intended to reach out to inner-city kids, the majority of whom had little church experience and no acknowledged relationship with Jesus.

If it had been up to me, I would have made those events "seeker-friendly." I'd have focused on building relationships, avoiding anything too religious or high pressure. But my friend went a different way. Every week, he led worship, one song after another, always unabashedly about—or to—Jesus.

I'm sure some of the kids walked away and never looked back. But hundreds stayed. Many made decisions to follow Christ.

Some ministry leaders were concerned that teens who didn't know Jesus were being asked to participate in worship. My friend would reply, "How else are they supposed to get to know him?"

It's a good question. People come to the Christian faith via many different highways, but the eventual crossroad is always an encounter with Jesus. I wonder if my attempts to keep my witness nonthreatening and accessible sometimes end up shielding the unchurched people around me from their own crossroad. Jesus can certainly meet them without my assistance. But I would rather be a help than a hindrance.

I was definitely a hindrance in Mexico. My husband, Mark, is a public high school counselor. A few years ago, a group of 11th graders asked him to coordinate a humanitarian trip. He contacted one of our favorite Christian organizations, and they agreed to facilitate an excursion to Mexico to build a playground in an impoverished area. Mark was careful to explain that the students participating were unchurched; should there be even a whiff of proselytizing, parents—and the school board—would feel betrayed.

There were 24 students and 4 teachers; my kids and I tagged along. Upon arrival, we discovered that the arranged accommodations at a local Rotary Club house had fallen through. Instead, we would be sleeping on the cement floor of a church basement in downtown Juârez, one of the most dangerous cities in Mexico. Mark could already imagine the parent phone calls he'd receive when word trickled home. Weary from a long day of travel, we set up sleeping bags and tried to ignore the exposed wiring, hole-ridden walls, and scurry of cockroaches.

In the morning, we drove to the site of our project. Jaws dropped and eyes welled as we observed the abject poverty around us. But we also experienced the sweet rush of doing something worthwhile. At the end of the day, we returned to our cement floor feeling good.

All was well until the nausea hit. Sometime around 3 A.M., the first wave of students became ill; by morning, there were clusters of miserable people draped on every available garbage can. Mark held his head and imagined a new wave of parent phone calls. Mostly he threw up.

Around 9 A.M., the two local women who were preparing our food arrived on the scene and surveyed the carnage. Despite the language barrier, their distress and concern were unmistakable. They had followed all the guidelines for cooking for foreigners, and we were still sick. Eventually, one of the women approached the only teacher who could speak Spanish and asked for permission to pray for us. Too ill to object, the teacher nodded yes.

As soon as the woman began to pray, I knew we were in trouble. I thought, Maybe everyone is so ill they won't mind the praying. But my hopes for a low-impact prayer faded quickly as the woman became increasingly emotional. She prayed for five minutes. Ten. Maybe more.





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Displaying 1–5 of 14 comments

Jerry

April 01, 2009  6:32am

Perhaps this is why the revival (yes there's an old fashioned word) is breaking out more powerfully in many places OUTSIDE the United States. Places where fear of offending seekers is non-existent. I do believe we have to be relevant to our culture and all it's uniqueness, but the call to follow Jesus is still quite simple and direct. What moved those students in Mexico was the precious heart of a servant of Jesus and her powerful compassion for sick kids most of whom could not understand her language, but "got it" anyway! Thanks for a powerful article.

john vorvick

April 01, 2009  1:05am

Carolyn! Mark! The Stockers say "hi"! Oh, and good article!

backpackerbill

March 31, 2009  5:01pm

This is exactly what Jesus, and prayer are all about! Thanks for a fine article.

Bill Kirkemo

March 31, 2009  3:18pm

Great writing. Reminds me of What Dietrich Bonhoffer wrote in Ethics, the difference between the Ultimate and the Penultimate. The Penultimate is great - it's everything that helps people grow closer and closer to Christ (compassion, works of grace, acts of love). But Salvation is the Ulitmate - and the words need to be spoken at some point in the relationship - "will you accept what Christ has done for you?" Too often Christians seem to be too scared or nervous to speak thouse Ultimate words, and instead hope that God will send someone else to speak them.

http://ketch22.wordpress.com

March 31, 2009  2:38pm

A nice reminder that God doesn't "need" us to save people... but rather "uses" us. Only God can save and/or convert the heart... and He can do it with just the speaking of His truth. He doesn't need us to sugar coat it or make it seeker friendly as He is in control... and His will be done, with or without us.

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