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Being Human

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Shame, Sexual Abuse, and Gaslighting with Christine Caine & Yana Jenay Conner

Can forgiveness meet reality when we navigate family trauma with truth?

In this episode of Being Human with Steve Cuss, hosts Steve and Lisa Cuss explore how upbringing shapes relationship dynamics, feelings of shame, and our faith. Guest Christine Caine shares her powerful journey through adoption trauma, childhood sexual abuse, and healing. Bible scholar Yana Jenay Conner reframes Jesus’ “turn the other cheek” teaching as a dignified response to dehumanization. Steve and Lisa also address gaslighting and its impact on trust. Throughout, the episode emphasizes that family of origin work isn’t about blame, but about pursuing healing, forgiveness, and flourishing rooted in God’s transformative love.

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Executive Produced by Erik Petrik
Senior Producer: Matt Stevens
Associate Producer: McKenzie Hill
Edited and mixed by Jim Eckes
Theme song by Dan Phelps
Original Music by Andy Gullahorn

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